The AA Preamble – contd

Here it is:

“Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism.

The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for AA membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions.

AA is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organisation or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.”

(our emphases)

You will observe the expression “share …. with each other” above. This term does not imply that as members of AA we have acquired the right to direct the conduct of others nor are we entitled to seek to manipulate, coerce, control, or exploit them. We have not been elevated to some position of authority from which pinnacle of expertise we may berate, cajole or even lecture others. We merely pass on our “experience, strength and hope” to our listeners who, in turn, are entirely free to act as they see fit. Or to use the analogy of 'sharing' a meal with someone we do so for the profit their company affords us and the hope that they may similarly benefit. 'Breaking bread' with someone does not include forcibly inserting a breadstick into their ear or shovelling a lamb chop down their throat! This is not the sort of conduct expected of a good host!

Cheers

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

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