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Friday 1 June 2012

Conference Questions (2012) forum discussion (contd)



Question 1:

Would the Fellowship share experience and make recommendations on how to make AA more visible to the general public, particularly by increasing awareness and understanding of how the AA programme works?"

Extracts

Suggestion 8

In view of the exploitation of the fellowship by outside organizations publishing sponsorship guides which elevate the sponsor to an unqualified authority over the newcomer as some kind of amateurish teacher/counsellor /mentor/spiritual advisor; and which are ripping apart the fellowship’s spiritual foundation, I suggest Dr. Bob’s policy against “glorification of the individual” and “sponsor worship” is given a general airing in meetings.

Extract from “The Fundamentals -- In Retrospect.” by Dr. Bob (AA Grapevine September 1948):

We have found it wise policy, too, to hold to no glorification of the individual. Obviously, that is sound. Most of us will concede that when it came to the personal showdown of admitting our failures and deciding to surrender our will and our lives to Almighty God, as we understood Him, we still had some sneaking ideas of personal justification and excuse. We had to discard them but the ego of the alcoholic dies a hard death. Many of us because of activity have received praise not only from our fellow A.A.s but from the world at large. We would be ungrateful indeed to be boorish when that happens yet it is so easy for us to become, privately perhaps, just a little vain about it all. Yet, fitting and wearing halos is not for us.

WE'VE all seen the new member who stays sober for a time, largely through sponsor-worship. Then maybe the sponsor gets drunk and you know what usually happens. Left without a human prop, the new member gets drunk too. He has been glorifying an individual instead of following the Program.

Certainly we need leaders but we must regard them as the human agents of the Higher Power and not with undue adulation as individuals. The 4th and 10th Steps can not be too strongly emphasized here--"Make a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves . . . continue to make personal inventory . . . promptly admit it when we are wrong." There is your perfect antidote for halo-poisoning.

So with the question of Anonymity. If we have a banner, that word, speaking of the surrender of the individual--the ego--is emblazoned on it. Let us dwell thoughtfully on its full meaning and learn thereby to remain humble, modest, ever-conscious that we are eternally under Divine direction.”


I also suggest a section is added to the pamphlets “Questions and Answers on Sponsorship” and “Sponsorship Your Questions Answered” (Great Britain), under the section title: “Avoid Sponsor Worship” This section to consist of the above words of Dr. Bob.”

and:

Suggestion 9

Suggest the pamphlets “Question and answers on Sponsorship” and its British equivalent “Sponsorship Your Questions Answered” [still not available online?] are made a little more comprehensive by adding a page index of suggested further readings in AA literature which cover sponsorship:

Living Sober chapter 11: Availing Yourself of a Sponsor pp 26-30
The Twelve steps and Twelve Traditions p 62  [page 61, as published by AA World Services, online version; or p 62 in re-print by General Service Board of Alcoholics Anonymous (Great Britain)]
As Bill sees it p14
As Bill sees it p144.
As Bill sees it, pages listed for reading in the discussion reading guide, under “Sponsorship; see Twelfth- stepping.”
Alcoholics Anonymous Comes of Age p 13, 67-68, 74
Pass It On p 171-173
The Language of the Heart pp 8, 39, 51-52, 98, 76-77, 198-199, 244-247, 252-253, 332-333, 346
Dr. Bob and the Good Old Timers pp 226-227, 284
A brief guide to Alcoholic Anonymous pamphlet, pp10-11 What does A.A. NOT do?
Members of the Clergy ask about A.A. pamphlet, What does A.A. NOT do?


(our emphases)


For the next batch of conference questions we will be including a section on the aacultwatch forum specifically devoted to these but with considerably fewer constraints on members' contributions, and with considerably more licence to cite sources directly in support of their arguments (currently not possible on the AA website). Moreover members will be able to to exchange private messages via our forum (a facility which is currently denied on the AA website). Anyone may join in the discussion.

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The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

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