AA
conference (2016)
See
here
Comment: By and large the
document consists of a range of pretty sensible suggestions although
we would question whether in fact a “strong home group is
paramount”.
We would argue of far greater importance is a solid grasp of Step
One, something which can only be accomplished by the individual
concerned. The remainder of the programme consists largely of what
might be described as 'trimmings' which are entirely optional. You
don't need to believe in God (just so long as you don't think you ARE
God!) to get and stay sober nor do you need to get on your knees to
pray (or pray at all), and it certainly isn't a requirement to get a
sponsor or assign to anyone the right to run your life. That's your
responsibility.
We would strongly endorse
the notion that AA members should be fully conversant with all the
literature relating to newcomers specifically Chapter Seven Working WITH Others (our emphasis), a section of which cult members seem
to remain totally ignorant. As for “greeters” one or two are
quite sufficient rather than the customary hordes of 'happy clappers'
which assail any poor unfortunates who happen to cross their path.
As for the 'men for men' and 'women for women' recommendation this
seems to assume a particular sexual inclination which is by no means
universal. We know of plenty of gay members who find a reverse
pairing more helpful. It's also worth noting that no mention is made
of AA members asking people new to the fellowship for their contact
details. They may offer their own but this implies no reciprocity.
Your phone number, email address etc are your business and no one
else's! It's called 'anonymity'. Finally as for so-called “Newcomer”
meetings ALL AA meetings are newcomer meetings. Too often the former
simply serve simply as 'hunting grounds' for cult predators searching
out 'fresh meat'.
Cheers
The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
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