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Thursday, 13 June 2013

Conference Questions (2012) forum discussion (contd)



Question 2:

Would the Fellowship share experience and make recommendations on how a greater understanding of the Traditions and Concepts of AA might be increased among the Fellowship?

Background

Recommendation of Conference 2011, Committee 5, Question 2
Reports of disunity in some areas of the Fellowship
A noticeable lack of AA members to fill service positions at all levels The Declaration of Unity


Consider the contribution to the carrying of the message, financial and practical implications when deliberating each question.

See also:


Extract:

Suggest the General Warranties of Conference (Concept 12 (short form) are read at the beginning of each group or intergroup business meeting or group conscience, for the Twelve Concepts for World Service are applicable to all levels of the service structure. The reader could adapt the warranties to the appropriate level of service by exchanging the words “General Service Conference” with “Group” “committee” “intergroup” as appropriate. For example, the General warranties (Short form) adapted to group level:

“in all its proceedings the Group shall observe the spirit of the A.A. Tradition taking great care that the Group never becomes the seat of perilous wealth or power; that sufficient operating funds, plus an ample reserve, be its prudent financial principle; that none of the Group members shall ever be placed in a position of unqualified authority over any of the others; that all important decisions be reached by discussion, vote and whenever possible, by substantial unanimity; that no Group action ever be personally punitive or an incitement to public controversy; that though the Group may act for the service of Alcoholics Anonymous, it shall never perform any acts of government; and that, like the Society of Alcoholics Anonymous which it serves, the Group itself shall always remain democratic in thought and action.” “

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Thursday, 30 May 2013

Conference Questions (2012) forum discussion (contd)



Question 2:

Would the Fellowship share experience and make recommendations on how a greater understanding of the Traditions and Concepts of AA might be increased among the Fellowship?

Background

Recommendation of Conference 2011, Committee 5, Question 2
Reports of disunity in some areas of the Fellowship
A noticeable lack of AA members to fill service positions at all levels The Declaration of Unity


Consider the contribution to the carrying of the message, financial and practical implications when deliberating each question.

See also:


Extract:

The absence of a Twelve Concepts for World Service scroll to display alongside the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions in meetings appears to be symbolic of what is lacking in the fellowship; out of sight, out of mind. Neither recovery nor unity can stand without the Twelve Concepts for World Service. Perhaps it would be wise to produce a scroll of the Twelve Concepts for World Service (short form). The print size will need to be smaller than the other scrolls because there are more words, but some members will be curious to get up close. Their presence might lead to conversation and more interest.

The Twelve Concepts for World Service (Short Form) can be seen online in the pamphlet: “The AA Group”, pages 47-49. http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/p-16_theaagroup.pdf

A greater awareness that the long form of the Twelve Concepts for World Service can be read online in the following publications might also help generate some interest.

The A.A. Service Handbook for Great Britain, 2008, (section 18):
http://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk/members/index.cfm?PageID=98&DocumentTypeID=21

The A.A. Service Manual combined with The Twelve Concepts for World Service:
http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/en_bm-31.pdf

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Monday, 20 May 2013

Conference Questions (2012) forum discussion (contd)



Question 1:

Would the Fellowship discuss, share experience and make practical suggestions as to how we can highlight the importance, effectiveness and value of Sponsoring into Service?

Background

The main reason for this question is the many gaps to be found in the Directory of Intergroup & Regional Officers, indicating that a significant number of Service positions are not being filled.

References:

General Service Conference Report, 1983, Committee 1 Directory of Intergroup & Regional Officers, 2011/2012 Leaflet “Sponsorship: Your Questions Answered”
The Service Handbook

Consider the contribution to the carrying of the message, financial and practical implications when deliberating each question

See also:


Extract:

My home group [Plymouth Road to Recovery (cult) group] annually holds its own Pre-Conference meeting to discuss the issues raised by the various questions. This is really helpful to newer members who are often a bit baffled by Conference etc and also encourages more experienced members to get involved and understand the issues. The main points raised in relation to this question were as follows.
• Officers are not being elected resulting in no sponsoring in.
• Follow the guidelines for service positions. Value the experience of previous holders of the post. Read ALL available literature. Speak to other Intergroups/Regions if no experience locally.
• Many sponsors in our group prepare sponsees for service as an integral part of recovery. Many share about how service has taken their recovery to new levels
• There are occasions when willing and able members are blocked from service positions because someone does not like them or their home group. Worse still people who don’t want to do the job are voted into service positions just to keep less popular people out.
• Lack of positive leadership/sponsorship in AA generally. Individual autonomy does not mean that experience should not be offered, advice from oldtimers can save a lot of time wasting and repeated mistakes. “

A response:

The fact that someone is willing and/or able does not in itself constitute a right to a service position in an intergroup. That is a matter for the intergroup itself. Again where someone is “blocked” from a position because they or their group is disliked begs the questions why so? Maybe there is a sound basis for this antipathy. Interestingly I would regard the mere fact that someone doesn't want the job as being something of a recommendation in itself. This would serve to exclude those members who are driven rather by the pursuit of personal power and influence than a service ethos (even an unwilling one!). Finally I thought the whole point of a voting system was to elect the popular choice and keep out the unpopular one(s). Something to do with democracy or so I believe.”

Comment:

Yet again the Plymouth group blows its own trumpet! It sounds good but unfortunately the reality is quite different as if so often the case with the cult. This group like so many others treats service in AA as a kind of career progression. CVs are frequently hastily constructed in order to boost promising candidates up the ladder to get them to the delegate stage as fast as possible where they are then in a position to pursue a strictly cult agenda (under the guidance of course of their all-knowing sponsors). For this reason some of our “trusted servants” can no longer be trusted! We echo the sentiments of the above responder. Maybe we should not be in such a hurry to fill service positions when they fall vacant. Getting rid of the Region layer of the hierarchy (a completely redundant part of the service structure – and extremely undemocratic by the way!) would be a good start and do much to relieve the 'strain'. The proliferation of service positions in intergroups also seems entirely unnecessary and demonstrates an inefficient use of resources .. as in too many chefs! Moreover we're entirely ungobsmacked that AA members don't wish to work alongside cult members. The experience is pretty uninspiring at the best of times! As for the last point made above: “advice” in cult circles is rarely offered dogma driven 'direction' however is available in abundance!

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Monday, 13 May 2013

Shock horror! aacultwatch is a…... cult!


Yep! It's official! And straight off the AA Great Britain website! Well actually only according to one of our 'advertisers' on the conference question forum so it doesn't really count......



This particular insight is offered by one going by the monicker of the “Red Baron” (are you kidding! What kind of delusional fantasy is going on there!) who asserts that we may be considered such due to our “almost fanatical adherence to dogma”. Ah well! That's not so bad... we're only “almost” fanatical! Maybe the “Red Baron” should try reading the site (that is in between flying all those killer missions). He might pick up on that fact that we're about the EXACT opposite... maybe even learn something! Nah! Probably not. No time to lose – there's yet another dogfight in the offing! Still it looks like he's finally met his match as he gives up the struggle only to limp away from battle with nothing but a whimper and a muttered imprecation

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous …. and Biggles fans!)

Thursday, 2 May 2013

A conference question … not quite!


One of our “personal” favourites!




Comment:

Another easy one!

a) What action should be taken? None! (But we would say that wouldn't we!). And it's a bit difficult to determine how one would go about making a “personal attack” on a whole group? The clue's in the word “personal”! And finally of course if someone is sufficiently aggrieved there is always the recourse of legal proceedings. We ourselves (strange to say) are occasionally threatened with the latter … but much to our disappointment nothing ever materialises.... Otherwise it's called 'freedom of speech'
b) See above - and specifically 'freedom of speech'
c) Easy peasy! Stop abusing newcomers and you will cease to be of any interest to us! Or putting it another way – start acting responsibly … if you can remember how!

For your information:

Tradition 10

Short form:




Long form:




It's worth noting carefully the wording of this tradition (and for that matter all of the traditions – even the much misquoted Tradition Four). We have emphasised the relevant sections: 

in such a way as to implicate AA” ie. to represent oneself as being a spokesman for the organisation. AA doesn't have a spokesman and we (aacultwatch) certainly don't represent ourselves as being such. (implicate: to involve as a necessary inference; to imply). 

outside” ie. outside the direct context of AA. Our subject matter deals specifically with 'internal' issues – what should NOT be going on in our fellowship 

can” - “can should be used only to express the capacity to do something, may must be used to express permission”. Semantically speaking therefore this is ineffective. Clearly AA members do have the capacity to act and speak thus. Whether they choose to do so or not is up to them (and subject to the law). But even where legal sanctions may apply they still 'can' act if they are prepared to take the consequences. But note the use of the word “may” in Tradition Three (long form)

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous ….. but only semantically speaking!)

Wednesday, 24 April 2013

Another almost ran!



And another easy question! Generally all that is required to start anything in AA is a grudge and a tea pot (in the UK of course! Nothing of note can be achieved unless accompanied by a nice cuppa …... And naturally grudges abound!). But you really need look no further than “Wessex Intergroup” for some sound 'leadership' on how a cult sets up an intergroup. Here a couple of cult groups, having been repeatedly rebuffed by all of the local intergroups who wanted to have nothing to do with them, set up shop on their own and proceeded to establish an alternative service structure in competition with that already established by AA. Logo'd up (prematurely it would seem), and maintaining every appearance of being something to do with the fellowship, they set off on their merry way (playing as always the victim), happily ignoring any tradition that just didn't fit in with their agenda. Ah well! So much for AA unity.....and so much for “participat[ing] fully in the AA service structure”

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Sunday, 14 April 2013

Conference Questions (2012) forum discussion (contd)



Question 2:

With specific regard to the history of our AA service structure, can the Fellowship share experience on how we can best strengthen unity by trusting and valuing the decisions of the group conscience at all levels of the Fellowship?

Background

‘The unity, the effectiveness, and even the survival of AA will always depend upon our continued willingness to give up some of our personal ambitions and desires for the common safety and welfare. Just as sacrifice means survival for the individual alcoholic, so does sacrifice mean unity and survival for the group and for AA’s entire Fellowship’.

AA Comes of Age, pp. 287-288 (Quoted in As Bill Sees It, p. 220)

Consider the contribution to the carrying of the message, financial and practical implications when deliberating each question.

See also:


Extract:

Suggest the book “The Language of the Heart” is given a higher profile within the fellowship and put in group and intergroup guidelines for suggested literature reading for those in service at these levels. First published in 1988 it contains virtually every article written for the AA Grapevine by AA co-founder Bill W. In more than 150 articles, written over a span of twenty-six years, Bill documented the painstaking process of trial and error that resulted in AA’s spiritual principles of Recovery, Unity, and Service, and articulated his vision of what the Fellowship could become. He reminds us of what it used to be like, documenting what happened and why it happened, and he gives each new generation of the fellowship a timeless insight into how to overcome present and future difficulties, with the wisdom of AA’s experience in its first thirty years. The role of “The Language of the Heart” in strengthening unity for now and future generations is yet to be fully recognised. Besides being available from GSO (GB), it is also available as an eBook from: https://store.aagrapevine.org/Showgroups.aspx?

“YOUR THIRD LEGACY” by BILL W. (Extracts) (AA Grapevine December 1950, The Language of the Heart page 126):

“WE, who are the older members of AA, bequeath to you who are younger, these three legacies--the "12 Steps of Recovery," the "12 Traditions" and now the "General Services of Alcoholics Anonymous." Two of these legacies have long been in your keeping. By the 12 Steps we have recovered from alcoholism; by the 12 Traditions we are achieving a fine unity. Being someday perishable, Dr. Bob and I now wish to deliver to the members of AA their third legacy. Since 1938 we and our friends have been holding it in trust. This legacy is the General Headquarters Services of Alcoholics Anonymous--the Alcoholic Foundation, the A.A. Book, The A.A. Grapevine and the A.A. General Office. These are the principal Services which have enabled our Society to function and to grow. Acting on behalf of all, Dr. Bob and I ask that you--the members of AA--now assume guidance of these Services and guard them well. The future growth, indeed the very survival of Alcoholics Anonymous may one day depend on how prudently these Arms of Service are administered in years to come……

Suppose then, all these years, we had been without those Services. Where would we be today minus the A.A. Book and our standard literature which now pours out of Headquarters at the rate of three tons a month? Suppose our public relations had been left to thoughtless chance? Suppose no one had been assigned to encourage good publicity and discourage the bad? Suppose no accurate information about AA had been available? Imagine our vital and delicate relations with medicine and religion left to pot luck. Then, too, where would thousands of AAs be today if the General Office hadn't answered their frantic letters and referred them to help? (Our New York Office received and answered 28,000 letters of all kinds last year.) Or in what shape would hundreds of distant AA Groups now be if that Office hadn't started them by mail or directed travelers to them? How could we have managed without a world Group Directory? What about those foreign Groups in 28 countries clamoring for translations, proved experience and encouragement? Would we be publishing the A.A. Book at Oslo, Norway and London, England? What of those lone members on high seas or in far corners of the earth, those prisoners, those asylum inmates, those veterans in service or in hospitals? Where might we one day be if we never had the A.A. Grapevine, our mirror of AA life and principal forum of written expression? How grateful we are for those Secretaries and those volunteer Editors and those friendly Trustees who have stood sentinel all these years over our principal affairs. Without all these things, where would we be? You must have guessed it. We'd be nowhere; that's sure.

So it is that by the "Steps" we have recovered, by the "Traditions" we have unified, and by our Headquarters Services we have been able to function as a Society.

Yet some may still say--"Of course the Foundation should go on. Certainly we'll pay that small expense. But why can't we leave its conduct to Dr. Bob and Bill and their friends the Trustees? We always have. Why do they now bother us with such business? Let's keep AA simple." Good questions, these. But today the answers are quite different than they once were.
 

Let's face these facts:
1. Dr. Bob and Bill are perishable, they can't last forever.
2. Their friends, the Trustees, are almost unknown to the AA movement.
3. In future years our Trustees couldn't possibly function without direct guidance from AA itself. Somebody must advise them. Somebody, or something, must take the place of Dr. Bob and Bill.
4. Alcoholics Anonymous is out of its infancy. Grown up, adult now, it has full right and the plain duty to take direct responsibility for its own Headquarters.
5. Clearly then, unless the Foundation is firmly anchored, through State and Provincial representatives, to the movement it serves, a Headquarters breakdown will someday be inevitable. When its old-timers vanish, an isolated Foundation couldn't survive one grave mistake or serious controversy. Any storm could blow it down. Its revival wouldn't be simple. Possibly it could never be revived. Still isolated, there would be no means of doing that. Like a fine car without gasoline, it would be helpless.
6. Another serious flaw: As a whole, the AA movement has never faced a grave crisis. But someday it will have to. Human affairs being what they are, we can't expect to remain untouched by the hour of serious trouble. With direct support unavailable, with no reliable cross-section of AA opinion, how could our remote Trustees handle a hazardous emergency? This gaping "open end" in our present set-up could positively guarantee a debacle. Confidence in the Foundation would be lost. AAs would everywhere say: "By whose authority do the Trustees speak for us? And how do they know they are right?" With AA's Service life-lines tangled and severed, what then might happen to the "millions who don't know." Thousands would continue to suffer on or die because we had taken no forethought, because we had forgotten the virtue of Prudence. This should not come to pass.

That is why the Trustees, Dr. Bob and I now propose the "General Service Conference of Alcoholics Anonymous." That is why we urgently need your direct help. Our principal Services must go on living. We think the General Service Conference of Alcoholics Anonymous can be the agency to make that certain.” (Bill W.)

“LETS KEEP IT SIMPLE – BUT HOW?” by BILL W. (AA Grapevine July 1960, The Language of the Heart page 303):

This Grapevine will be read as we celebrate AA's Twenty-fifth Anniversary in July at Long Beach, California. We shall be stepping over a new threshold into our future. We shall rejoice as we think of the gifts and the wonders of yesterday. And, as we rededicate ourselves to fulfilling the immense promise of AA's tomorrow, we shall certainly survey how we stand today. Have we really "kept AA simple"? Or, unwittingly, have we blundered?

Thinking on this, I began to wonder about our fundamental structure: those principles, relationships, and attitudes which are the substance of our Three Legacies of Recovery, Unity and Service. In our Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions we find twenty-four definitely stated principles. Our Third Legacy includes a Charter for World Service that provides thousands of General Service Representatives, hundreds of local Committeemen, eighty General Service Conference Delegates, fifteen General Service Board Trustees, together with our Headquarters legal, financial, public relations, editorial experts and their staffs. Our group and area services add still more to this seeming complexity.

Twenty-two years ago last spring, we were just setting about the formation of a trusteeship for AA as a whole. Up to that moment, we had neither stated principles nor special services. Our Twelve Steps weren't even a gleam in the eye. As for the Twelve Traditions--well, we had only forty members and but three years' experience. So there wasn't anything to be "traditional" about. AA was two small groups: one at Akron and another in New York. We were a most intimate family. Dr. Bob and I were its "papas." And what we said in those days went. Home parlors were meeting places. Social life ranged around coffeepots on kitchen tables. Alcoholism was of course described as a deadly malady. Honesty, confession, restitution, working with others and prayer was the sole formula for our survival and growth. These were the uncomplicated years of halcyon simplicity. There was no need for the maxim "Let's keep it simple." We couldn't have been less complicated.

The contrast between then and now is rather breath-taking. To some of us it is frightening. Therefore we ask, "Has AA really kept faith with Dr. Bob's warning, 'Let's keep it simple'? How can we possibly square today's Twelve Steps, Twelve Traditions, General Service Conferences and International Conventions with our original coffee-and-cake AA?"

For myself I do not find this difficult to do. Genuine simplicity for today is to be found, I think, in whatever principles, practices and services that can permanently insure our widespread harmony and effectiveness. Therefore it has been better to state our principles than to leave them vague; better to clarify their applications than to leave these unclear; better to organize our services than to leave them to hit-or-miss methods, or to none at all.

Most certainly indeed, a return to the kitchen table era would bring no hoped-for simplicity. It could only mean wholesale irresponsibility, disharmony and ineffectiveness. Let's picture this: there would be no definite guiding principles, no literature, no meeting halls, no group funds, no planned sponsorship, no stable leadership, no clear relations with hospitals, no sound public relations, no local services, no world services. Returning to that early-time brand of simplicity would be as absurd as selling the steering wheel, the gas tank and the tires off our family car. The car would be simplified all right--no more gas and repair bills, either! But our car wouldn't go any place. The family life would hardly be simplified; it would instantly become confused and complicated.

A formless AA anarchy, animated only by the "Let's get together" spirit just isn't enough for AAs here and now. What worked fine for two score members in 1938 won't work at all for more than 200,000 of them in 1960. Our added size and therefore greater responsibility simply spells the difference between AA's childhood and its coming of age. We have seen the folly of attempting to recapture the childhood variety of simplicity in order to sidestep the kind of responsibility that must always be faced to "keep it simple" for today. We cannot possibly turn back the clock, and shouldn't try.

The history of our changing ideas about "simplicity for today" is fascinating. For example, the time came when we actually had to codify--or organize, if you please--the basic principles that had emerged out of our experience. There was a lot of resistance to this. It was stoutly claimed by many that our then simple (but rather garbled) word-of-mouth recovery program was being made too complicated by the publication of AA's Twelve Steps. We were "throwing 'simplicity' out the window," it was said. But that was not so. One has only to ask, "Where would AA be today without its Twelve Steps?" That these principles were carefully defined and published in 1939 has done (only the Lord knows) how much good. 

Codification has vastly simplified our task. Who could contest that now?

In 1945, a similar outcry arose when sound principles of living and working together were clearly outlined in AA's Twelve Traditions. It was then anything but simple to get agreement about them. Yet who can now say that our AA lives have been complicated by the Traditions? On the contrary, these sharply defined principles have immensely simplified the task of maintaining unity. And unity for us AAs is a matter of life or death.

The identical thing has everywhere happened in our active services, particularly in World Services. When our first trusteeship for AA was created there were grave misgivings. The alarm was great because this operation involved a certain amount of legality, authority, and money, and the transaction of some business. We had been running happily about saying that AA had "completely separated the spiritual from the material." It was therefore a shocker when Dr. Bob and I proposed World Services; when we urged that these had to head up in some kind of a permanent board, and further stated that the time had come--at least in this realm--when we would have to learn how to make "material things" serve spiritual ends. Somebody with experience had to be at the steering wheel and there had to be gas in the AA tank.

As our Trustees and their co-workers began to carry our message worldwide, our fears slowly evaporated. AA had not been confused--it had been simplified. You could ask any of the tens of thousands of alcoholics and their families who were coming into AA because of our World Services. Certainly their lives had been simplified. And, in reality, so had ours.

When our first General Service Conference met in 1951, we again drew a long breath. For some, this event spelled sheer disaster. Wholesale brawling and politicking would now be the rule. Our worst traits would get out in front. The serenity of the Trustees and everybody else would be disturbed (as indeed it sometimes was!). Our beautiful spirituality and the AA therapy would be interfered with. People would get drunk over this (and indeed a few did!). As never before, the shout went up, "For God's sake, let's keep this thing simple!" Cried some members, "Why can't Dr. Bob and Bill and the Trustees go right on running those services for us? That's the only way to keep it simple."

But few knew that Dr. Bob was mortally sick. Nobody stopped to think that there would soon be less than a handful of old-timers left; that soon they would be gone, too. The Trustees would be quite isolated and unconnected with the fellowship they served. The first big gale could well bowl them over. AA would suffer heart failure at its vital center. Irretrievable collapse would be the almost certain result.

Therefore we AAs had to make a choice: what would really be the simpler? Would we get that General Service Conference together, despite its special expense and perils? Or, would we sit on our hands at home, awaiting the fateful consequences of our fear and folly? What, in the long run, we wondered, would really be the better--and therefore the simpler? As our history shows, we took action. The General Service Conference of Alcoholics Anonymous has just held its tenth annual meeting.

Beyond doubt we know that this indispensable instrument has cemented our unity and has insured the recovery of the increasing hosts of sufferers still to come.

Therefore I think that we have kept the faith. As I see it, this is how we have made AA truly simple!

Some may still ask, "Are we nevertheless moving away from our early Tradition that 'AA, as such, ought never be organized'?" Not a bit of it. We shall never be "organized" until we create a government; until we say who shall be members and who shall not; until we authorize our boards and service committees to mete out penalties for non-conformity, for non-payment of money, and for misbehavior. I know that every AA heart shares in the conviction that none of these things can ever happen. We merely organize our principles so that they can be better understood, and we continue so to organize our services that AA's lifeblood can be transfused into those who must otherwise die. That is the all-in-all of AA's "organization." There can never be any more than this.

A concluding query: "Has the era of coffee-and-cake and fast friendships vanished from the AA scene because we are going modern?" Well, scarcely. In my home town I know an AA who has been sober several years. He goes to a small meeting. The talks he hears are just like those Dr. Bob and I used to hear--and also make--in our respective front parlors. As neighbors, my friend has a dozen AA cronies. He sees them constantly over kitchen tables and coffee cups. He takes a frequent whack at Twelfth Step cases. For him, nothing has changed; it's just like AA always was.

At meetings, my friend may see some books, pamphlets and Grapevines on a table. He hears the lady secretary make her timid announcement that these are for sale. He thinks the New York Intergroup is a good thing because some of his fellow members were sponsored through it. On World Services, he is not so clear. He hears some pros and cons about them. But he concludes they are probably needed. He knows his group sends in some money for these undertakings, and this is okay. Besides, his group's hall rent has to be paid. So when the hat comes by, he cheerfully drops a buck into it.
 

As far as my friend is concerned, these "modernizations" of AA are not a bit shattering to his serenity or to his pocketbook. They merely represent his responsibility to his group, his area, and to AA as a whole. It has never occurred to him that these are any but the most obvious obligations.
 

If you tried to tell my friend that AA is being spoiled by money, politics and over-organization, he would just laugh. He'd probably say, "Why don't you come over to my house after the meeting and we'll have another cup of coffee." (Bill W.) ”

(our emphases)

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Wednesday, 3 April 2013

Conference Questions (2012) forum discussion (contd)



Question 2:

With specific regard to the history of our AA service structure, can the Fellowship share experience on how we can best strengthen unity by trusting and valuing the decisions of the group conscience at all levels of the Fellowship?

Background

‘The unity, the effectiveness, and even the survival of AA will always depend upon our continued willingness to give up some of our personal ambitions and desires for the common safety and welfare. Just as sacrifice means survival for the individual alcoholic, so does sacrifice mean unity and survival for the group and for AA’s entire Fellowship’.

AA Comes of Age, pp. 287-288 (Quoted in As Bill Sees It, p. 220)

Consider the contribution to the carrying of the message, financial and practical implications when deliberating each question.

See also:


Extract:

There needs to be a greater understanding of the Twelve Concepts for World Service at all levels, but especially at intergroup/ group level; a greater understanding of the complexity of early AA history, how and why the AA Traditions and Concepts developed. No society can function without some boundaries for individual and group behaviour; or without the elected authority and responsibility to see that these boundaries are kept intact. Without this responsibility and authority A.A. can return to the same pre-Tradition chaotic days of the 1940’s. Groups led by the “power driven ego,” “dictators,” and “steering committees,” as Bill W. recalled:

“Growth brought headaches; growing pains, we call them now. How serious they seemed then! “Dictators” ran amok; drunks fell on the floor or disturbed the meetings; “steering committees” tried to nominate their friends to succeed them and found to their dismay that even sober drunks could not be steered.” (AA Grapevine April 1947; The Language of the Heart pages 47-48)

“The Twelve Traditions were slowly evolved during an era when large-scale publicity was causing new groups to spring up like popcorn on a hot griddle. Many a power-driven ego ran hog-wild among us in those days, and it was the Traditions that finally brought order, coherence, and effective functioning out of the noisy anarchy which for a time threatened us with collapse.” (“The Language of the Heart” AA Grapevine July 1960 [a misquote: actually AA Grapevine November 1972]; The Language of the Heart page 248).

A good place to start to strengthen unity would be for those in service, especially at group and intergroup level, to read the full article from where the excerpt of the background to this question was taken: “Why Alcoholics Anonymous is anonymous.” Besides being printed in AA comes of Age, this is also available online, in the pamphlet: AA Tradition How it Developed, page 40.
http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/p-17_AATraditions.pdf
Then move on to develop a working knowledge of the principles of AA Traditions and how they developed; and the Twelve Concepts for World Service, in order to understand how the group conscience works and their elected duty to carry responsibility and authority.
http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/en_bm-31.pdf

Correction to the above post. Only a small excerpt of the article “Why Alcoholics Anonymous is anonymous” in the pamphlet “AA Tradition How it developed”. The full article is in “AA Comes of Age””

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Sunday, 24 March 2013

Conference Questions (2012) forum discussion (contd)



Question 1:

Review the draft Structure Handbook.

Background

Draft Structure Handbook

Consider the contribution to the carrying of the message, financial and practical implications when deliberating each question.

Draft Structure Handbook can be found here in the document library:

http://www.alcoholics-anonymous.org.uk/members/index.cfm?PageID=98&&DocumentTypeID=8259

See also:


Extract:

Draft Structure Handbook, page 70

There is evidence the term "Steering committee" can be misinterpreted, leading to disputes due to overweening personal power and authority; in other words,
dictatorships whose decisions exclude participation of the whole group membership or the AA group conscience as a whole. As Bill W. pointed out in the April 1947 AA Grapevine:

“Growth brought headaches; growing pains, we call them now. How serious they seemed then!
“ Dictators” ran amok; drunks fell on the floor or disturbed the meetings; “steering committees” tried to nominate their friends to succeed them and found to their dismay that even sober drunks could not be steered.” (AA Grapevine April 1947; The Language of the Heart pages 47-48)

The word "steering" implies possessing power to control or change the direction of something and can evidently be rationalized into meaning one possesses the power to direct or govern. Committees do have the power to govern, by withholding information from the group conscience, or by making hasty decisions without full participation of all the group members. Perhaps mindful of this when Bill W. wrote the Traditions, he did not use the term "steering committee" in Tradition 9/ Tradition 9 (Long form), instead he referred to: "Service boards or committees directly responsible to those they serve", "rotating committee", "Intergroup association", "central or intergroup committee."

"Service" is a word plain in meaning. Therefore I suggest "Steering Committee" is changed to "Service committee" and "Steering Committee Officers" is changed to "Service Committee members". At present the 2nd and 4th Paragraphs, page 70, read as follows:

2nd paragraph:

"The meetings that constitute the multi-meeting Group are assisted in fulfilling the needs of the Group by a Steering Committee comprising Group Officers and representatives from the meetings belonging to the Group. These Steering Committee Officers - Chair, Treasurer, Literature Sec. etc. as set out in 1.2 Group Officers below - are elected from members of the Group’s meetings at a Group Conscience meeting attended by members or representatives of all the meetings in the Group."

4th paragraph:

"It has been found that there is Unity in multi-meeting Groups providing that the application of the principle of rotation of steering-committee officers is observed in order to avoid personalities becoming established at the expense of the Groups’ welfare: also, that regular Conscience and Business Meetings are held." “

(our emphases)

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Saturday, 2 March 2013

Conference Questions (2012) forum discussion (contd)



Question 2:

Would the Fellowship review and re-affirm what constitutes an AA Group, within the Fellowship in Great Britain with specific reference to Traditions 4 - 6?

Background

Consider the contribution to the carrying of the message, financial and practical implications when deliberating each question.”

Extract:

In reply to …....... Most of the tiresome group problems and hair splitting, nit picking discussions on traditions that I have seen over the years have involved drug addict alcoholics trying to bend AA to their way of liking, instead of them trying to find solutions to problems other than alcohol outside the fellowship. The leaders of problem groups in my area, besides claiming to be alcoholics, have also been drug addicts. I think it would be a good idea in general, if multiple drug addicted alcoholics asked themselves “What is my primary addiction?” and then go to a fellowship, or to a professional who can help them iron out the mental twists associated with that addiction. I also think alcoholics who have not been addicted to drugs ought to be asking the same question of others “What is your primary addiction?” then, if drug addicts, suggest they may need help with mental twists associated with their drug addictions elsewhere. When it comes the sole purpose of an AA group, experience has shown that AA cannot help nonalcoholic drug addicts who may have drunk alcohol. AA can only help multi addicted alcoholics with their alcoholism.

The traditions are paradoxical and what is said in one tradition can be used to argue against what is said in another. They are a set of related principles that need to be taken as a whole. There are two themes within the Traditions concerning liberty, one is for the AA group, the other is for the individual AA member. Throughout the Traditions the currents of these themes run parallel to each other, but in opposite directions. Each tradition tightly restricts the AA group’s freedom to a single purpose with no other affiliation, while at the same time affording the individual AA member almost unlimited freedom of thought and action. It appears to be very easy for some people to confuse these themes and then to use them to invert the principles of the Traditions. This inversion of Traditions can be seen in groups that apparently believe that they can do as they please as a group, whilst at the same time, restrict their individual group member’s liberty to a religiously precise dogma.

“In AA, the group has strict limitations, but the individual has scarcely any.” (Bill W. AA Grapevine February 1958. The Language of the Heart page 225).“


Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Thursday, 21 February 2013

Conference Questions (2012) forum discussion (contd)



Question 2:

Would the Fellowship review and re-affirm what constitutes an AA Group, within the Fellowship in Great Britain with specific reference to Traditions 4 - 6?

Background

Consider the contribution to the carrying of the message, financial and practical implications when deliberating each question.”

Extract:

The question is clear enough and the background is sufficient (and does not exclude additional citation)

“The Traditions have these words to say on Groups in AA.

Tradition 3 (Long Form). Our membership ought to include all who suffer from alcoholism. Hence we may refuse none who wish to recover. Nor ought A.A. membership ever depend upon money or conformity. Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a group, they have no other affiliation.

Tradition 4 (Long form). With respect to its own affairs, each A.A. group should be responsible to no other authority than its own conscience. But when its plans concern the welfare of neighbouring groups also, those groups ought to be consulted. And no group, regional committee, or individual should ever take any action that might greatly affect A.A. as a whole without conferring with the trustees of the General Service Board. On such issues our common welfare is paramount.”

(Source: GUIDELINES for A.A. in Great Britain - Revised January 2000 No. 1)

Tradition 3 may be divided into two parts: firstly that which relates to membership of AA as a whole; secondly what constitutes an AA group as such (but qualified). The first part includes only one proposal – that membership is open to anyone “who suffer[s] from alcoholism” (self diagnosed). Their membership cannot be restricted on any other ground. These may, in turn, form an AA group (subject only to the above constraint but see Traditions 1, 2, 5, 6, 9 and 10).

Tradition 4 deals with group autonomy (but qualified and not unrestricted)

From this it follows that membership of AA (and consequent individual participation in the fellowship) should be distinguished from membership of an AA group (and its collective participation in the fellowship); the two are not necessarily the same. One can be a member of AA without being a member of a particular AA group or groups. Moreover this (almost) unrestricted right of AA membership does not imply or entail that any group (composed solely of AA members) has a correspondingly unrestricted right to call itself an AA group. Tradition 3 above clearly indicates otherwise. Therefore whereas an alcoholic may declare themselves to be a member simply because they say so (and quite rightly) the same does not apply to an AA group. These two basic concepts should not be indiscriminately conflated.

The question as to WHO decides whether an AA group is one or not relies mostly on Traditions 1 and 4. The first makes clear the priority of the “whole” over the 'parts'. If members singly (or collectively) act in such a fashion as to threaten the “common welfare” then the interests of the “whole” must take precedence. If the former continue to act irresponsibly then the latter will be obliged to take action; there really is no other choice. Tradition 4 moreover makes it clear that group autonomy is subject to consultation in some instances. Again if no consultation takes place and/or our “common welfare” is again threatened then the “whole” is presented with same choice.

The notion that an AA group may function (as such) completely independently of the AA service structure is merely disingenuous (quite apart from being impractical). It ignores completely Traditions 1, 3 and 4. For example Tradition 3 indicates the central criterion for an AA group: “Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a group, they have no other affiliation.” The key phrase here is “no other affiliation” - this does not imply 'no' affiliation. A group that refers to itself as an “AA” group explicitly affiliates itself with AA generally, and one might reasonably assume therefore with both the AA fellowship and AA programme. Why in this case would such a group not wish to be part of the service structure, and even more interestingly, why should it not seek to be in “harmony with” other “neighbouring groups” (under Tradition 4) as represented by, for example, the local intergroup? If its objectives, methods etc are so at odds with these latter then why again would such a group wish to affiliate itself with AA in the first place?

The principle of non-affiliation is in fact referred to in two of the traditions:

Tradition 3: ”........Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a group, they have no other affiliation.”

Tradition 6: “.......While an A.A. group may cooperate with anyone, such cooperation ought never go so far as affiliation or endorsement, actual or implied. An A.A. group can bind itself to no one.”

In both instances there is a context but neither of these subtract from the fundamental principle so clearly stated in the conclusion to Tradition 6 viz. “An A.A. group can bind itself to no one” (other than self-evidently – and definitionally - AA itself). This principle is exemplified in the AA preamble but not limited by this.

It can be seen from the above that any AA group can indeed organise a convention (or anything they like) within the terms of Tradition 3 but then this is not the applicable tradition. Tradition 4 (see above) indicates that consultation ought to take place prior to any such planned action. But again it begs the question why would any AA group wish to organise something without consulting all of the affected groups (ie. “neighbouring groups”) via the most appropriate service structure – the local intergroup? Similarly this tradition covers advertising on websites, announcements etc. (and indeed the very existence of these websites).

[Definition of terms:

Affiliate: To become closely connected or associated
Co-operate: To work or act together toward a common end or purpose
Institution: an established custom, law, or relationship in a society or community]

A collection of AA members may decide to co-operate towards any end they like (ie. as a collection of individuals who happen to be AA members). But an AA “group” has “but one primary purpose” and its attendees (members and visitors) need meet only one membership requirement. Moreover within the context of AA there is only one reason why members should “band together” ie. to fulfil that “one primary purpose” (Tradition 5). If an AA group should direct its efforts towards any other goal (subsidiary or otherwise) it becomes a “dual” or even “multi purpose” group and has therefore set aside that tradition. Even if a group merely advertises such events it is actively “endorsing” these and therefore has itself chosen to disregard Tradition 6. But generally the operative tradition here is, I repeat, primarily Tradition 4, and not Tradition 3.

With respect to the distinction to be drawn between the notions of “affiliation” and “co-operation” reference should again be made to Tradition 6:

“While an A.A. group may cooperate with anyone, such cooperation ought never go so far as affiliation or endorsement, actual or implied. An A.A. group can bind itself to no one.”

Here it would seem that these concepts lie along a continuum with co-operation placed at one end and affiliation or endorsement located at the other. If a group pursues some objective other than our primary purpose ie. the promulgation of sectarian practices and beliefs, financial enterprises (e.g. paid circuit speakers, recovery courses, retreats etc – and see here Tradition 12) or even simply endorses (actual or implicit) them (via notices, advertisements etc) then it is in breach of Tradition 6 (as well as Tradition 5). Co-operation should be limited to information provision on the part of AA (or AA groups) but with no suggestion of endorsement.

Finally the notion of differing “common interest collections” represents presumably groups of members (who happen to be in AA) but who are pursuing interests which diverge from our primary purpose. Such “collections” are according to our own traditions not AA groups. Moreover groups which endorse their activities are again in breach of Tradition 6.

With respect to the example cited of “Alano” clubs I refer here to “Clubs in AA. Are they with us to stay? (originally a Grapevine article but published in “A.A. Tradition—How It Developed (http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/p-17_AATraditions.pdf). Bill Wilson discusses in this article the origin and evolution of the “club” system in the US. Clearly these institutions posed some dilemmas in terms of how they were to be reconciled within AA's structure and principles. To quote: “This tangle slowly commenced to unravel, as we began to get the idea that clubs ought to be strictly the business of those individuals who specially want clubs, and who are willing to pay for them.......that an A.A. group, as such, should never get into active management of a business project.” From these (and subsequent) comments it is clear that the relationship between AA groups and the Alano clubs is not substantially different from that which exists between an AA group and the landlord of a premises hired for the purposes of a group meeting (or IG meeting). The only difference is that the landlords in this instance also happen to be AA members (but not AA groups). No one would indeed suggest that such an arrangement constitutes an “affiliation” or “endorsement”. But a landlord/tenant relationship is not currently the one under discussion. The affiliation principle applies rather where groups seek to “become closely connected or associated” with institutions, movements etc with diverging, or even on occasion related objectives to those of AA . Cooperation might be appropriate (as indicated above ie. the provision of requisite information) but no more than this. The Alano comparison therefore is invalid.

Finally it is unfortunate that the above contributor should descend to such emotive language as “self-righteous AA policemen” or attribute to them such unworthy motives. The provision for the exclusion of groups already exists under our own traditions. Exclusion of AA members is simply not possible according to those same traditions:

3.—Our membership ought to include all who suffer from alcoholism. Hence we may refuse none who wish to recover. Nor ought A.A. membership ever depend upon money or conformity. Any two or three alcoholics gathered together for sobriety may call themselves an A.A. group, provided that, as a group, they have no other affiliation. “

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Tuesday, 12 February 2013

Conference Questions (2012) forum discussion (contd)



Question 2:

Would the Fellowship review and re-affirm what constitutes an AA Group, within the Fellowship in Great Britain with specific reference to Traditions 4 - 6?

Background

Consider the contribution to the carrying of the message, financial and practical implications when deliberating each question.”

Extract:

The introduction to the Twelve Concepts reminds us that “We are sure that each group of workers in world service will be tempted to try all sorts of innovations that may often produce little more than painful repetition earlier mistakes.” Therefore as entrusted guardians of the fellowship, all AA members are responsible to continually educate each new AA generation of the nature of our traditions, for the unity of the fellowship and for the sake of those to come. True to Concept IX this does in my experience involve nurturing strength of spirit to withstand the occasional and sometimes violently aggressive emotional outbursts from those who find AA Traditions disagreeable or who find them difficult to understand.

Concept IX can be found on pp 34- 40: http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/en_bm-31.pdf

In what constitutes an AA group, its world service workers would discourage its members from describing themselves as “Clean and sober” This is a dual purpose. This may sound a trivial point to some, but it is of paramount importance to secure the future unity of the fellowship. The majority of the group members would actively participate and support their world service workers in such actions. If AA members want to be clean then there are other fellowships that they can join for this purpose. An AA group would not include in its membership non-alcoholic drug addicts from other 12 step fellowships, or a member’s non alcoholic family or friends. It would refer alcoholics with other primary addictions to organizations which can help them with those addictions; and refer their family and friends to Al-Anon.

An AA group would not include in its membership friendly teetotal non alcoholic evangelists from the local church who may have a desire to stop drinking and who might also fancy giving a helping hand to save the souls of alcoholics; this under the misapprehension that AA was originally an attempt to re-create first century Christianity. The attempt to recreate first century Christianity was by the Oxford Group, not AA.

At open AA meetings the group’s trusted world service workers would ensure Tradition Seven is upheld when passing the pot, requesting and ensuring that non alcoholic visitors do not contribute to the group financially. Non alcoholics can attend open meetings as visitors, they cannot become AA members.

“…We took this violent new tack because here and there members had tried to make money out of their A.A. connections, and we feared we’d be exploited. Now and then, grateful benefactors had endowed clubhouses, and as a result there was sometimes outside interference in our affairs…” (Extract from Tradition Seven)

I think there is evidence of various organizations which are exploiting AA and encouraging an amalgamation of AA with other fellowships and treatment programmes in order to provide a “cure all” under the collective title of “12 Step recovery” or “Christian 12 step recovery.” I think there is evidence within the fellowship and AA Grapevine, that the influence of these organizations is detrimentally changing the nature of our society. If these organizations continue to be successful in amalgamating their causes within AA, then it will cause AA to collapse [a reference to Dick B and the International Christian Recovery Coalition among others].

Suggest groups hold workshops/Group consciences focusing on pages 222-225, The Language of the Heart, “Problems other than Alcohol.” relating this to AA Traditions.

Extracts from The Language of the Heart pp 222-225 “Problems other than alcohol, by Bill W:

Now there are certain things that AA cannot do for anybody, regardless of what our several desires or sympathies may be.

Our first duty, as a society, is to insure our own survival. Therefore we have to avoid distractions and multi-purpose activity. An AA group, as such, cannot take on all the personal problems of its members, let alone the problems of the whole world.

Sobriety--freedom from alcohol--through the teaching and practice of the Twelve Steps, is the sole purpose of an AA group. Groups have repeatedly tried other activities and they have always failed. It has also been learned that there is no possible way to make non-alcoholics into AA members. We have to confine our membership to alcoholics and we have to confine our AA groups to a single purpose. If we don't stick to these principles, we shall almost surely collapse. And if we collapse, we cannot help anyone.

To illustrate, let's review some typical experiences. Years ago, we hoped to give AA membership to our families and to certain non-alcoholic friends who had been greatly helpful. They had their problems, too, and we wanted them in our fold. Regretfully, we found that this was impossible. They couldn't make straight AA talks; nor, save a few exceptions, could they identify with new AA members. Hence, they couldn't do continuous Twelfth Step work. Close to us as these good folks were, we had to deny them membership. We could only welcome them at our open meetings.

Therefore I see no way of making non-alcoholic addicts into AA members. Experience says loudly that we can admit no exceptions, even though drug users and alcoholics happen to be first cousins of a sort. If we persist in trying this, I'm afraid it will be hard on the drug user himself, as well as on AA. We must accept the fact that no non-alcoholic, whatever his affliction, can be converted into an alcoholic AA member.”……….

........“I'm very sure that these experiences of yesterday can be the basis of resolving today's confusions about the narcotic problem. This problem is new, but the AA experience and Tradition which can solve it is already old and time-tested. I think we might sum it up like this:
We cannot give AA membership to non-alcoholic narcotics-addicts. But like anyone else, they should be able to attend certain open AA meetings, provided, of course, that the groups themselves are willing. AA members who are so inclined should be encouraged to band together in groups to deal with sedative and drug problems. But they ought to refrain from calling themselves AA groups.

There seems to be no reason why several AAs cannot join, if they wish, with a group of straight addicts to solve the alcohol and the drug problem together. But, obviously, such a "dual purpose" group should not insist that it be called an AA group nor should it use the AA name in its title. Neither should its "straight addict" contingent be led to believe that they have become AA members by reason of such an association.” (Bill W. AA Grapevine, February 1958, The Language of the Heart pp 222-225)“

(our emphasis)

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)