Showing posts with label Derbyshire Intergroup. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Derbyshire Intergroup. Show all posts
Wednesday, 5 September 2012
“Murky going's on in Derbyshire” etc etc
Well the murk gets thicker and thicker and with not a sign of daylight anywhere!
But:
“Dear Fellas
As a previous regular attendee of the Derby City Meetings, the suggestion that “personal abuse, interference with prescribed medication, and that the Derby City group promotes itself to the detriment of other groups in the area” are absolutely and completely true.
At just about every meeting they describe other meetings in the area as being “knitting circle”, “god bothering” and/or “useless” and always claimed that they had “the only decent and sustained sobriety for at least a 25 mile radius”. I was personally told by a member of the meeting who was sponsoring me at the time that if I took a specific medication prescribed by my GP for anxiety (Citalopram) I could “find a new sponsor” and would “no-longer be tolerated at the meetings”. I was told that the meeting would not tolerate attendees taking any “mind altering substances” including those prescribed by doctors.
I hope this helps.
…....”
(our edit)
However – and to summarise (and moreover demonstrably):
Derbyshire Intergroup website (still semi-detached from the official AA website) continues to carry a Step Four template derived (so we are informed) from a “Back to Basics” source (a nonprofit outside organisation) and in contravention of the guidelines.
For their part the Derby City meetings have set up their own website (under a Midland Region header) where it is claimed:
“Derby City Centre Alcoholics Anonymous meetings offer people wanting to get and stay sober a proven success story.
Derby AA's focussed groups will provide the best help possible - our meetings are far and away the most successful in the East Midlands.”
This clearly constitutes an attempt to “promote” the group in competition with other groups in the East Midlands area - and for which “success” no evidence is provided. This too constitutes a fundamental breach of AA guidelines.
Finally the Derby City groups appear in a listing entitled “Worldwide Agnostic A.A. Meetings” thereby breaching yet another tradition relating to non-affiliation.
Cheerio
The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
PS Our thanks to our correspondents
Saturday, 18 August 2012
Derby City/Derbyshire IG – the missives fly thick and fast … and rather flimsily!
We've received various communications now on the subject of the ““Murky goings-on in Derbyshire” involving the current wrangle between some of the Derby City meetings and the respective intergroup. What we have so far managed to conclude from these is someone somewhere is telling rather large 'porky pies'! To date we haven't decided conclusively who is but when we do then you can be quite sure that the hammer will fall!
The latest
development in this saga however relates to a letter of complaint
(purportedly) sent by Derbyshire NHS to the Intergroup:
“The
contents of the letter is clear, alcoholic service users of the
Crisis team within Derbyshire have experienced extremely unhelpful
and very abusive behaviour at the aforementioned group [Derby City]
and the NHS are advising intergroup that they will no longer be
recommending that their service users go to this meeting.”
But in
response to a query from the Derby City meetings Derbyshire NHS
(Derby Crisis Intervention Team) responded thus (allegedly):
“Letter
from Mental Health Crisis Team boss [Richard Morrow]
Hi …..,
Thank you
for raising this with me earlier and the further information. I have
made some further enquiries today following on from our conversation
earlier.
I am going
to write a letter to the Intergroup PO Box address requesting that
someone contact me in relation to the letter that has reportedly
being sent from the team.
I will be
clearly stating that to my knowledge no communication has been sent
on behalf of the service and that any comments received should not be
considered the representative view of the Crisis Team or Derbyshire
Healthcare Foundation Trust and should be disregarded.
I will
further request that a copy be made available to me so that I can
raise with any potential source the upset and disharmony that this
can cause.
I will
send a copy to you via e-mail which you are free to retain and use as
you see fit.
I would
just like to add that if a member of my team has played any part in
the difficulties you and your group are currently experiencing then
you have my unreserved apology.
Any
comments of this nature are unsolicited and in my opinion
inappropriate and do not reflect the opinions of myself, my team or
indeed Derbyshire Healthcare Foundation Trust.
Sincerest
regards,
Derby City
and County South CRHTT”
(It should
be noted that in neither instance were original copies of the above
communications provided hence the use of the terms “purportedly”
and “allegedly”)
Furthermore
an allegation has been made that the General Service Office (York)
instigated a series of “mystery calls to the [local] helpline”
and that on the basis of these “confirmed the unsuitability of our
members [ie. of Derby City group] for service”.
Apparently
when GSO was queried about this by a representative of the Derby City
group they provided the following reply (or as reported):
“The
general secretary tell me that GSO have in fact never so much as
received a complaint about us in 15 years, let alone opened a QA
[Quality Assurance] department.......GSO have promised me a letter
commenting on claims made as to their actions in this matter.”
In
connection with the (alleged) suspension of Derby City group members
from participation in the telephone responders' service the following
policy statement applies (as set out by Derbyshire Intergroup):
"The
group nominates the following members who are being sponsored into
telephone service, either as a responder (permanent or reserve)
and/or a 12 Stepper. All people listed must be regular attenders of
THIS group (that means they attend this group most weeks). By putting
their names on the form, the group is saying that they believe these
people are able to carry the message of recovery to newcomers under
the guidelines, and that they are reliable in performing service."
and:
“The
forms are available via DIG and NLIG; so by definition any group in
contact with their appropriate area intergroup has access to the form
and therefore into the formal service mechanism. There are no rules,
written or otherwise, that exclude any specific group or members from
formal service. A group would simply need to attend intergroup to
collect a form, complete it and return it. The accusation that "the
cult dupe "in charge of" the helpline is driving this
campaign. He has decreed that no-one who attends our meeting is ever
to be allowed to do helpline or 12-step work under any circumstances"
is simply untrue.”
and so it
continues...... so much for AA unity!
But it
would seem that we're not the only ones who are taking an interest in
what precisely is going on in Derbyshire AA. We've recently been
contacted by a reporter from the Derby Telegraph as follows:
“Hi
there,
I am a
reporter at the Derby Telegraph. I have just read the posting
http://aacultwatch.blogspot.co.uk/2012/08/murky-goings-on-in-derbyshire-another.html
with interest.
If you
could keep in touch regarding anyone that may come forward with any
information regarding AA meetings in the area would it be possible to
see if they would be willing to come forward, anonymously if that is
how they feel most comfortable, to talk about their experiences.
Thanks
very much and hope to hear from you soon.”
Comment:
The above represents the shape of things to come. If Alcoholics
Anonymous is unwilling to put its house in order (and this sooner
rather than later!) then inevitably others will take action! If we
are unable to provide a safe environment for newcomers (and here we
are not referring solely to the situation in Derbyshire but
nationally) then there can be no other outcome than the referring
agencies will discontinue recommending us to their clients and
patients. If we cannot meet the absolute minimum standards of care
and respect for those who come to us for help then we really don't
deserve the trust of the society within which we operate. We
continue to receive reports concerning vulnerable members who have
committed suicide because of pressure placed upon them to desist the
use of prescribed medication (the most recent in the Bournemouth
area). The controlling, intrusive and abusive 'sponsorship' styles
characteristic of the cult members who operate within AA are still
very much in evidence. These practices simply extend licence to
those 'control freaks/narcissists' who wish to 'play God' whilst
simultaneously rendering their sponsees (or rather 'victims')
impotent, and even regressed into an almost infantile state of
dependency on their human 'Higher Power'. These departures from AA
principles are a blight on the fellowship and if left unchecked will
lead without doubt to its dissolution.
And where
does the responsibility for all this rest? Take a look in the mirror
…..
Cheers
The Fellas
(Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
PS Our
usual thanks to our various correspondents
Sunday, 12 August 2012
Derbyshire Intergroup minutes – an interesting read!
Comment:
This is what happens when the traditions are ignored! Chaos!
Cheerio
The Fellas
(Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
PS More to follow! Our usual thanks to our correspondent
Monday, 6 August 2012
“Murky goings-on in Derbyshire” - another perspective (in brief)
We
have received further allegations with reference to the Derby City
meetings. These include forms of personal abuse, interference with
prescribed medication, and that the Derby City group promotes itself
to the detriment of other groups in the area. Our source requested
that the details not be published on the site. We would however be
interested to hear from any members who can provide any further
(publishable) evidence to support (or rebut) these allegations
(preferably in the form of personal testimony and/or documentary
evidence).
Over
to you
The
Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
PS
We've recently checked out the AA GB website – the ONLY official
website for AA in the country. For at least FOUR days now the
Starter Pack section of the site (which carries links to the relevant
pamphlets) has been inoperative. On clicking the links the message:
“The system cannot find the path specified.” is
displayed. What this means is that there is nothing there!
Apparently the webmasters are currently substituting pdf links for
html links for documents throughout the site but have failed to do so
for this section. The documents themselves are available (if you
look closely) under the Members' Area - then under Service - THEN
under Document Library - and THEN
under Newcomers
starter pack Pdfs – not exactly easily accessible! We estimate it
would take about 5 minutes to rectify the problem! So what's going
on?
PPS
The Share section of the same website contains the following spelling
error: “possitive” for “positive”. Remember this website is:
“created and maintained by The General Service Board of Alcoholics
Anonymous (Great Britain) Ltd. through The General Service Office of
Great Britain.”
Comment:
This is the public face of Alcoholics Anonymous (Great Britain) on
the web! Use a spell check!
Tuesday, 31 July 2012
“Murky goings-on in Derbyshire” continued.....
A number
of allegations have been levelled at the Derby City meetings (as
reported by a member from that group) as follows:
“That a
complaint had been received from some local mental health team that
one of their punters had come to our meeting, and drank that night,
and that we had somehow caused this. We cannot recall a newcomer like
the one supposedly involved in this incident, and have no way of
verifying if a complaint was ever made.
That our meeting was not a proper AA meeting because we do not close the meeting with the serenity prayer.
That we are in some way misogynistic, as evidenced by the fact that few women attend.
We consider these allegations to be not even wrong. We are not misogynistic, are not required to pray, and are not responsible for whether a newcomer drinks or not.
…........
The local IG would like us to be compelled to join, and to accept their authority over us. Their clearly and repeatedly expressed wish is to be able to tell us how to run our meeting and how to do 12-step work. They would like to be able to define an AA meeting as one proceeding along the lines described on their website, to say that anything else is not a proper AA meeting, and to prevent anyone at such a "rebel" meeting from doing AA service.
It only seems odd that we were not invited to comment on allegations if one assumes that we have a functional IG. As an example of where things are locally, I will tell you about how we all came to barred from 12-step service:
….... was a helpline responder sponsored onto the helpline by our meeting. He received a call from a vulnerable female who expressed concern that she had heard that women like her were targeted by sexual predators in AA, and that she was thinking of going to a meeting in Derby at which ….... knew there were many such predators. He suggested to her that she might wish to go elsewhere as the meeting she was proposing to go to had a problem of the sort she was concerned about. …..... subsequently received a call from the then TLO, who wished to interrogate him about the call without being willing to disclose to him what allegations had been made. Having been forced to defend himself against allegations which could not be disclosed to him the interview with him was discussed in camera in both IG and region based solely on the account of this hostile interviewer. After all of this, he was allowed to stay on the helpline, but a little while later, everyone who attended the meeting was barred from the helpline and 12-step work on the grounds of ….. being convicted in his absence, and without disclosure of the charges of something so terrible that no-one is permitted to know what it is. You may agree or disagree with …...'s actions, but the concept of natural justice is clearly lacking here. It is against this background that the IG becoming a kangaroo court for meetings which have never acknowledged its legitimacy should be understood.
I do not have information on all of the meetings where the IG minutes have been discussed, and used as the basis for making a petition to York, but I believe that it was defeated at Belper, and passed by a majority at Kimberley and Ripley. Away from the Nottingham/Derby border where the cults dominate, I am not sure it has been discussed in a group conscience at all. Despite dissent in all forums where it has been discussed, a clear defeat in at least one, and a likelihood that it will not be discussed at all in meetings away from the cult zone, I predict that it will be taken as carried on the grounds that the majority of people in the small number of meetings in which it was discussed.
We will once again be struck from the list of meetings, and York will be petitioned. Whilst I know that York will not act on their petition, they can easily remove us from the local where to find and prevent helpline references to us. Many of the most aggressive meetings already scribble out out our entries on the where to find card, tell people we have closed, and that we have left AA.
Whilst it is true that substantial unanimity is not essential, it is my understanding from past group Step Tens that it is an ideal to be aimed for. The need to make decisions means that debate cannot proceed endlessly, but a quote from your own site demonstrates my point here perfectly:
"All service bodies are reminded that AA is an inclusive fellowship. Adherence to AA Traditions, concepts and warranties ensures inclusivity. This committee found that strained relations between some groups and Intergroups can inhibit the effectiveness of our primary purpose. The principles of Unity, right of participation, that minority opinion must be heard and that no service body has the authority to take punitive action were emphasised to help resolve some of the difficulties encountered."
We have no right of participation, and punitive action is being taken against us. That the IG does not have the legitimate authority to do so does not stop them from acting ultra vires. It merely stops us from calling in a supervisory level of organisation to stop them.
As far as acting at IG level to call ….... to account, the IG has a very small and highly unrepresentative membership, and does not allow those who disagree with it to even attend, let alone vote. Members of CALYX and Visions have held those of its officerships which are filled since its inception, and some of the posts have had a single incumbent during that time. We applied to join all three local IGs and were turned down on unity grounds. We have been told that the only way we will be allowed to join is if we change our conscience to one more to their liking. I can see you are having difficulty understanding how an IG can so lose its way, but it is so. Investigate the matter for yourselves.
Regards
…....... “
That our meeting was not a proper AA meeting because we do not close the meeting with the serenity prayer.
That we are in some way misogynistic, as evidenced by the fact that few women attend.
We consider these allegations to be not even wrong. We are not misogynistic, are not required to pray, and are not responsible for whether a newcomer drinks or not.
…........
The local IG would like us to be compelled to join, and to accept their authority over us. Their clearly and repeatedly expressed wish is to be able to tell us how to run our meeting and how to do 12-step work. They would like to be able to define an AA meeting as one proceeding along the lines described on their website, to say that anything else is not a proper AA meeting, and to prevent anyone at such a "rebel" meeting from doing AA service.
It only seems odd that we were not invited to comment on allegations if one assumes that we have a functional IG. As an example of where things are locally, I will tell you about how we all came to barred from 12-step service:
….... was a helpline responder sponsored onto the helpline by our meeting. He received a call from a vulnerable female who expressed concern that she had heard that women like her were targeted by sexual predators in AA, and that she was thinking of going to a meeting in Derby at which ….... knew there were many such predators. He suggested to her that she might wish to go elsewhere as the meeting she was proposing to go to had a problem of the sort she was concerned about. …..... subsequently received a call from the then TLO, who wished to interrogate him about the call without being willing to disclose to him what allegations had been made. Having been forced to defend himself against allegations which could not be disclosed to him the interview with him was discussed in camera in both IG and region based solely on the account of this hostile interviewer. After all of this, he was allowed to stay on the helpline, but a little while later, everyone who attended the meeting was barred from the helpline and 12-step work on the grounds of ….. being convicted in his absence, and without disclosure of the charges of something so terrible that no-one is permitted to know what it is. You may agree or disagree with …...'s actions, but the concept of natural justice is clearly lacking here. It is against this background that the IG becoming a kangaroo court for meetings which have never acknowledged its legitimacy should be understood.
I do not have information on all of the meetings where the IG minutes have been discussed, and used as the basis for making a petition to York, but I believe that it was defeated at Belper, and passed by a majority at Kimberley and Ripley. Away from the Nottingham/Derby border where the cults dominate, I am not sure it has been discussed in a group conscience at all. Despite dissent in all forums where it has been discussed, a clear defeat in at least one, and a likelihood that it will not be discussed at all in meetings away from the cult zone, I predict that it will be taken as carried on the grounds that the majority of people in the small number of meetings in which it was discussed.
We will once again be struck from the list of meetings, and York will be petitioned. Whilst I know that York will not act on their petition, they can easily remove us from the local where to find and prevent helpline references to us. Many of the most aggressive meetings already scribble out out our entries on the where to find card, tell people we have closed, and that we have left AA.
Whilst it is true that substantial unanimity is not essential, it is my understanding from past group Step Tens that it is an ideal to be aimed for. The need to make decisions means that debate cannot proceed endlessly, but a quote from your own site demonstrates my point here perfectly:
"All service bodies are reminded that AA is an inclusive fellowship. Adherence to AA Traditions, concepts and warranties ensures inclusivity. This committee found that strained relations between some groups and Intergroups can inhibit the effectiveness of our primary purpose. The principles of Unity, right of participation, that minority opinion must be heard and that no service body has the authority to take punitive action were emphasised to help resolve some of the difficulties encountered."
We have no right of participation, and punitive action is being taken against us. That the IG does not have the legitimate authority to do so does not stop them from acting ultra vires. It merely stops us from calling in a supervisory level of organisation to stop them.
As far as acting at IG level to call ….... to account, the IG has a very small and highly unrepresentative membership, and does not allow those who disagree with it to even attend, let alone vote. Members of CALYX and Visions have held those of its officerships which are filled since its inception, and some of the posts have had a single incumbent during that time. We applied to join all three local IGs and were turned down on unity grounds. We have been told that the only way we will be allowed to join is if we change our conscience to one more to their liking. I can see you are having difficulty understanding how an IG can so lose its way, but it is so. Investigate the matter for yourselves.
Regards
…....... “
(our
edits)
The Fellas
(Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
Coming
soon: Yet another perspective
Monday, 23 July 2012
Murky goings-on in Derbyshire
A brief
summary
(and for
more background simply type Derbyshire into the Google search
box located at the top of our blog)
For some
time there has been an ongoing dispute between Derbyshire IG (or
parts of it) and a number of meetings in Derby City with various
allegations being levelled at the latter (based at the Sisters of
Mercy Convent, Bridge Gate, Derby, and running on Tuesdays, Fridays
and Sundays). These meetings place some emphasis on the fact that
they are “non-religious” (which in itself is hardly
controversial) but otherwise appear to be run in accordance with the
guidelines (although we would question their assertion on the
meetings' success rates included on their website). For a period
they were removed from the local Where to Find but subsequently
reinstated (at the request of GSO York apparently). Interestingly
Derbyshire IG itself has had its inclusion on the national website
suspended because the IG uses Google Maps as an aid to meeting
location. This has been deemed (by someone somewhere) as a
contravention of the traditions (presumably relating to
non-affiliation). (This latter instance illustrates the confusion
that currently exists within the General Service Conference when it
comes to AA's relationship with the internet. For example Derbyshire
IG is denied a presence on the official AA website on the above
grounds and yet the same website carries a link to the Plymouth Road
to Recovery (cult) group which regularly breaks the same guideline - and many others - at every opportunity). Moreover, and in our view
more seriously, the IG website carries a template produced by
(according to the IG itself) the Back to Basics movement (an outside
organisation based in the US with a not-for-profit tax status). The
information included within this template mostly relates to the book
Alcoholics Anonymous but with a commentary which clearly does not.
The latest
communication we have received from a representative of the above
meetings is as follows:
“Thanks
for your highlighting of the problems with the Derbyshire IG in the
past - I have an update for you
The
cultists are now going around the local meetings holding a referendum
to remove us from the list of local meetings and to petition York to
have us taken off the national list of meetings, after apparently
having had a kangaroo court at the last IG meeting in which we were
convicted in our absence of a number of supposed crimes. As ever
there was no pretence of natural justice. We were not invited to
defend ourselves against these charges, and no evidence was offered
to back them. Neither was the AA tradition of substantial unanimity
being followed. The IG is telling groups that the motion to expel us
was carried at IG, despite their being significant dissent at the IG.
There is also dissent in the meetings where the issue is being
discussed, and counted as passed based on a majority show of hands.
[this however is the standard basis for voting – a simple majority
usually suffices]
…......,
the cult dupe "in charge of" the helpline is driving this
campaign. He has decreed that no-one who attends our meeting is ever
to be allowed to do helpline or 12-step work under any circumstances,
despite the helpline now having half of its slots going empty, and
several of the the few people on the helpline doing three or four
shifts each.
….....
is a sad case, who got sober in our meeting and went to Milton Keynes
after a year with his job. Though he went there an atheist, he came
back a covert cultist, which we only found out when we caught him
using cult literature with a Buddhist sponsee. Now he is acting as a
sort of apostate, determined to stamp out the very meeting which got
him sober.”
(our
edits)
Cheers
The Fellas
(Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
PS We have
previously invited Derbyshire Intergroup to comment or respond on any
of these issues. None was forthcoming
PPS Our usual thanks to our correspondent
Tuesday, 11 October 2011
More from Derbyshire....and Mid-Trent....and Notts....and Leicester... the plot thickens!
“They [Derbyshire
intergroup] had us [Derby City groups] thrown off the local list of meetings
twice, had every member of our meetings removed from service twice, and
persuaded all three local intergroup to deny us membership. Their sponsees and
those influenced by them reliably neglected to mention the existence of our
group to helpline callers even when we were allowed on the list.
The intergroup
situation is essentially a sham. The old East Midlands Intergroup was felt to be
too large, and was dominated by a few Notts old-timers, so …..... created The
Mid-Trent and Derbyshire Intergroups, which are still run by acolytes of those
same Notts old-timers …....... with the cultists in tow or leading on occasion.
Mid-Trent IG failed in fairly short order, and Derbyshire IG is just a fig-leaf
for the Notts old-timers (or "senior AAs" as they like to be called) continuing
to run things. They would rather have the cultists at the helm than a truly
independent IG. We showed the senior AAs the literature we sent you and they did
nothing, then allowed the cultists to throw us off. Leicester simply ignores the
Intergroup, "Notts and Leicester IG" is only so called because Leicester can't
even be bothered to turn up to announce that they are leaving.
I can give a lot more
detail, but that's the essential position. When we were denied IG membership,we
were told by ….. members (acting as IG emissaries) that all three IGs had had to
deny us membership as a "unity issue". That this was the basis on which we are
not in the IG makes our expulsion from service on the grounds of our
non-membership all the more unreasonable.
In terms of documentary
evidence, they have not in the past minuted any decision to throw us off, and
have only gone in writing about the decision at all on this occasion, in the
letter they sent to us."
Comment: We did contact
Derbyshire IG to get their side of the story – the silence is still quite
deafening!
Cheers
The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
Cheers
The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
(our usual thanks to
this contributor)
Labels:
Derby City,
Derbyshire Intergroup,
Leicester,
Mid Trent,
Nottingham
Thursday, 6 October 2011
Dissent in Derby – what exactly is going on in this intergroup?
We have received recent
contacts from members within this intergroup including the
following:
“Whilst we may not
agree with you in every detail of your approach, we are happy to offer you
information and assistance to try to support the achievement of our common goal,
an AA of genuinely autonomous and effective meetings.
As well as their base
in Long Eaton, the Derby Wednesday and Sunday "Friends Meeting House" meetings
were taken over by the cultists around a year ago, and they also now run a
number of "informal meetings" in Derby and Long Eaton. These "informal meetings"
do not appear on the GSO list, and are run by the cult as explicitly and
exclusively Christian affairs with no pretence of following AA tradition.
You can see confirmation of what I am telling you on the intergroup website here. Look at the meeting minutes for confirmation of their promotion of "informal meetings" [apparently this entry has now been removed from the intergroup website], their version of step 4 worksheets, and the use of a 1940's version of "questions and answers on sponsorship".
Bill is the name of
their local leader. He is based in Long Eaton. His firmest follower is
Geraldine, who has infiltrated the local Derbyshire intergroup, along with a
number of other cultists including her soon to be ex-husband Jez.
The local intergroups
under the influence of the cult removed every member of our groups [Derby City
centre] from the 12-step list, and responders rota a couple of weeks
ago.
Regards
…..”
Cheers
The Fellas
(Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
(our usual thanks to
this contributor)
Friday, 16 September 2011
Derbyshire AA Intergroup?
A while
ago we received a series of emails emanating from the Derby area in
relation to the activities of the local intergroup. It would seem
from these that all is not well. Various allegations were made as to
the conduct of this intergroup with reference to a number of meetings
in the Derby City area. We visited the above mentioned intergroup's
website to check some of the matters raised in our correspondents'
emails and came across a number of features which we found somewhat
surprising. We summarised these in one of our own responses. See
below:
“Dear …...
Thank you
for your email. Firstly we should begin by saying (and as a point of
clarification) that our goal is as stated on the website and includes
(although not overtly) our full support for the principles on which
AA is based ie. the Steps, Traditions, Concepts, guidelines (albeit
with some qualifications in the last instance) etc. We were somewhat
dismayed therefore to note your reference to “genuinely autonomous”
meetings since this in itself represents a misquote of Tradition
Four, something which we have gone to considerable lengths to
emphasise on our site. We quite categorically do NOT support groups
that exercise their own autonomy BUT with a complete disregard for
the impact this might have on other groups or AA as a whole, and
moreover where such action undermines the effectiveness of the
remainder of the Traditions. Although our primary focus is on “cult”
groups (as we define them) there are plenty of instances where what
might otherwise be described as legitimate AA groups also breach (and
seriously) these Traditions, and not only to their detriment but also
other groups and AA collectively.
With
regard to the intergroup website we have checked through this and
there are a number of areas of concern. Firstly the site itself does
not seem itself to be directly linked into the main AA website (under
Midlands region – Derbyshire). In connection with this we note the
following:
Under the
heading "Website" (Minutes Dec 2010):
"…..
has received no further communication following the contact he made
with GSO Electronic sub committee.
….. has also sent two emails to GSO asking if we could have our page back on the new site but has received no reply."
Also under
same heading (Minutes Sept 2010)
"…..
informed IG that the Derbyshire page had been removed from the G.S.O
site because it has links to outside bodies- the body in question is
Google maps, the page previously provided a link to Google maps so
that a visitor to the page could see where exactly a meeting was
located. He stated that he would re-organise the National page to
comply with AA guidance, and asked the group whether the links should
be taken off the Derbyshire website, which is separate to the
national page on the AA website, or not?
It was
agreed that the links to Google maps should be kept on the Derbyshire
site."
Next: the
templates available on the site do not have any indicated conference
approved provenance. One of these (the 4th step inventory) seems to
derive from the following site:
http://aaworkshop.org/4th-step-inventory.php. [with “Back to
Basics” connections. See here for more information on this
grouping]. This site has no affiliation with AA as such (although it
omits to mention this) and therefore the use of the material (and
despite its relatively innocuous content) constitutes an implied
endorsement (and affiliation) by Derbyshire Intergroup (a breach of
the Traditions). Exactly the same may be said with regard to the 1944
sponsorship pamphlet (again no indication that this is conference
approved). Most of the views expressed in this document are again
relatively uncontroversial (although there are some with which we
might take serious issue) but an AA intergroup really has no business
carrying reference material which does not form part of the approved
corpus of AA literature (and especially where the existing [AA]
literature most adequately covers the areas under question). Under
the section “What Happens at Meetings” again the content is
relatively harmless but there are a number of statements included
which seem to express the personal opinions (and preferences) of the
author(s) rather than being purely observational. For example the
view is expressed that: “We are not a religious organisation but we
are spiritual and many of us (even the atheists among us) find this
short prayer helpful.” Apart from the fact that this seems to be
something of a broad assumption it is questionable how a prayer
addressed directly to God could ever be regarded as “helpful” by
someone who is a genuine atheist. Praying to something that you have
no belief (or faith) in whatsoever would seem to us to be a rather
bizarre activity. There is also something distinctly patronising
about the qualifying condition ie. “EVEN the atheists....” (our
emphasis). The only category of alcoholic in AA is – an alcoholic
in AA! That is it! Again, the observation that: “..... we usually
stand in a circle, join hands and say ….” is not as far as we're
aware an accurate statement. It may be the case in the Derbyshire
area but it is not “the norm” elsewhere. Further: “We do not
talk or comment when someone is sharing and it is considered bad
manners to comment negatively on an earlier share when it is your
turn. (We call that "cross-sharing")”. The expression
“cross-sharing” is a relatively recent 'fad' (or for those of us
who have been around AA “for a little while” at least!) and we
have found, on the contrary, a bit of “negative” sharing can be
most instructive especially when it's somebody's life on the line!
And of course the question arises: who is it precisely that considers
it “bad manners” to “cross-share”? The author(s)? Other
members? Who exactly are these “spokesmen for AA”? Indeed there
is no guideline which may DIRECT how a member may or may not speak
and therefore they should not be subjected to any form of censorship
(implicit or otherwise) other than that governed by the relevant
statutes. It seems quite unnecessary in our view to include such
detailed “opinions” on an AA site which should contain only basic
information relating to meeting lists, conventions, intergroup
business and links to the relevant sections of the main AA website.
This is a yet another example of unhelpful “micro management”!
With
reference to the “Sobriety Breakfast” (advertised on the site)
this is another clear breach of the Traditions (specifically
Tradition Seven). Fund raising “events” (and we would include
here profits derived from literature sales - an example of AA
traditions being broken not only locally but even nationally!),
raffles, dances, discos etc all represent “transactions”
contributing to a profit. In exchange for the “goods” or
“services” provided a specific charge is made (including
generally that element of profit) and a contract comes into
existence. There is no indication within the Traditions of Alcoholics
Anonymous that such “contracts” are intended to be created
between it, the Fellowship service structure and its members. The
point of a “voluntary contribution” indeed is that no such
contractual relationship is created. Both parties (if it may be put
that way) are mutual donors and both are mutual beneficiaries, the
rewards deriving solely from the relationship itself and not from any
extrinsic and “superfluous” benefit.
Finally we
would certainly be interested to hear whether the intergroup website
has carried information about “informal” meetings (associated
with a particular religious denomination) since this would be a clear
(and extremely serious) breach of the Traditions. The only reference
we can find in the minutes to such “informal” meetings relate to
those held at the Derbyshire Royal Infirmary (and this seems to be
due to some constraints on accessibility).
We would
also be interested to hear specifically why the intergroup took the
action you indicated with respect to your group(s) and what steps you
have taken to remedy the situation, and what (if any) response you
have had from the intergroup in this regard.
For our
part we will pass on some of the above observations to both GSO York
and also to Derbyshire Intergroup. In the meantime we would
appreciate it if you would send us the group details (as they appear
in the AA online Where to Find) of both your group(s) and also the
groups you refer to as belonging to the cult. This will ensure that
no confusion may ensue through misidentification. We will then follow
up on the matter
Cheers
The
Fellas”
We did
subsequently contact Derbyshire Intergroup with regard to the above –
no response. We also contacted GSO York who kindly acknowledged our
communication.
The Fellas
(Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
(our
thanks to the correspondents from Derby for drawing our attention to
these issues)
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