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Saturday, 3 October 2015

Critics Say Washington AA Chapter Is Cultlike


Extract:

By the time May Clancy turned 15 years old, she was well on her way to drinking herself to death. A middle-school student from Potomac, Md., she had been through 11 different psychiatric and alcohol-rehab programs in two years. Each time, she started drinking again as soon as she got out. Her parents were terrified. "We'd taken her to hospitals—everything possible to get her the best care that we could," says May's father, Mike. "And all these places told us that they didn't think she could make it without Alcoholics Anonymous.”

So in November 2005, when May agreed to begin attending meetings at Midtown, one of the oldest and largest AA groups in the Washington, D.C., area, it felt like a miracle. Other AA meetings in the city attracted mostly older men and women; Midtown was known as a place for recovering alcoholics in their teens and 20s. Some of the group's senior members were older, but there were also dozens of high-school and college kids with stories a lot like hers. From the moment she arrived, they seemed to go out of their way to welcome her. At first, May was thrilled to find a group of people who accepted her as she was. "When I went there," she says, "I didn't really talk to anybody, didn't trust anybody. And these people would hang out with me even if I didn't say anything, and include me in conversations. I was desperate to be liked at that point."

But something about Midtown was not right. After a few months, the group's embrace of May began to feel like a chokehold. She says the sponsor assigned to give her moral support and help keep her sober pressured her to cut off ties to anyone outside the group. Another member snatched her cell phone and deleted names in the directory. She says she was pressured to stop taking the medication a doctor had prescribed to manage her bipolar disorder: group members told her she couldn't be sober if she was taking any kind of drug. There was a hierarchy to the group. Younger members were sometimes expected to wash cars, clean houses and do other menial chores for more senior members.”

Source: Newsweek – Culture (5/6/07)

Comment: It all sounds very familiar! But when anonymity transmutes into secrecy and autonomy tyranny what do you expect!

Cheers

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

See also:

Tuesday, 10 February 2015

Cults and A.A. Conventions


An A.A. member’s escape from the clutches of a cult… 


The Recovery Alliance Inc. (RAI), bills itself as a self-help organization dedicated to the advancement of recovery for what the group refers to as “obsessive-compulsive” persons, such as alcoholics, compulsive eaters, and compulsive gamblers. RAI practices the 12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), but claims to do it in a way that is more “pure” than AA and other “Anonymous” fellowships. RAI believes that the 12-step programs have been watered down over the years and no longer practice the true program of recovery as it was intended by its founders.

RAI is structured as a non-profit organization, with a board of directors and an organizational charter. Although the board elects a chairman, all the members’ activities, beliefs, and direction evolve from the founding member, Donald Gilroy. Gilroy teaches that the “illness” that members are recovering from is centered in selfishness and self-centeredness. To recover, members must commit their lives to selfless self-sacrifice. They are subjected to, among other things, rigorous and tiresome fund-raising, schedules, public humiliation, rigidly controlled diets, and other abusive conduct.

I wrote the following letter to RAI members two years after leaving the group.

March 7, 1992

Hi!

This week has marked two years since I left the Recovery Alliance, Inc. (RAI). I am writing this letter just to let you know what it’s like on this side. I have so much to say that I could go on for pages, but I will try to keep this as brief as possible.

I have seen you guys several times – fund-raising, of course. I saw you selling T-shirts in Seattle and raffle tickets at the Durham Fair. I have seen you at car shows, department stores, and at the fireworks. My first reaction when I see you is repulsion, but it is quickly followed by sorrow. I know what it is like for you, since you are all victims (yes victims do exist), just as I was.

It is interesting what I am able to see now that I couldn’t see then. For as long as I was there I knew that I was unhappy, but I was told that the problem was with my recovery, not my environment.

I remember making the decision to leave. It was like all of a sudden being struck with a bolt of sanity. I’m sure you all think it was because I had a boyfriend. Well, I made my decision a couple of months before I met him. After having been placed on probation, I remember standing in my room and thinking, “I can’t do this anymore. I want to leave.” It was not the first time I had ever had that thought, but this time it was different. This time it was followed by another thought, which was “I don’t care what the consequences will be.” As you observed, I made no attempt to meet the terms of my probation.

When I first left, I was quite confused. Fortunately, I quickly got help from some professionals who have experience with working with former members of RAI and other similarly destructive groups. They helped me see the insanity of the situation. The loss of freethinking. The emotional, sexual, and spiritual abuse we were all suffering. The psychopathology of Donald. I was helped by some books – Combatting Cult Mind Control by Steve Hassan and People of the Lie by Scot Peck.

Well, the consequences of my leaving were nothing like I expected. What am I like today? I’m basically a happy person. I have a good job in my field with a Fortune 500 company. I have a nice apartment (yes, with off-street parking) and a decent car. I have a handful of close friends and many acquaintances. Most of my friends are in 12-step programs, but some aren’t. I have good relationships with my family.

Most of all I have freedom. I probably average three AA meetings a week – sometimes more, sometimes less. If I’m tired or just don’t feel like going to a meeting, I stay home. Or I go somewhere else. I keep busy, but make time for myself too. I clean my apartment every week. I just finished reading a 1,000 page novel. On weekends I frequently get together with friends and go dancing, hiking, or on day trips. I have dated several guys in the last two years, and have had a couple of steady relationship, too.

How’s my relationship with God? Fine. I worship the god of my own understanding.

I am not overweight, nor am I underweight. I eat two or three meals a day, and sometimes, if I feel like it, I have a snack in between.

I am able to express whatever is on my mind, and I don’t have to follow any formula. I attend fairs and festivals as a participant, not as a vendor. I attend AA conventions as an AA member, not as a vendor – and not as a person with superior knowledge.

Not a Friday has gone by when I haven’t come home from a long work week and said to myself, “Thank God I don’t have to go to that awful meeting.”

I feel sorry for other former members who haven’t received the help they need. Many of them end up with tremendous guilt as a result of RAI’s teachings. Some have joined other destructive groups. One has died. Fortunately, however, most of us have been helped by the proper professionals and have been able to live happy lives.

I wish you all the best, and hope that you will soon realize the amount of control and deception taking place in your surroundings.

Sincerely,

Holly”

(Extract from “Captive Hearts, Captive Minds –Freedom and Recovery from Cults and Abusive Relationships” (Hunter House, 1994) pp. 8-10 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Captive_Hearts,_Captive_Minds 

Comment: A book by one of the world's leading cult experts, J. Lalich, Professor of Sociology at California State University. Forward by M. Langone, Executive Director of the International Cul;tic Studies Association (ICSA)  http://www.icsahome.com/home  So, read all about it, cults have been targeting A.A. for some time.  Like the Primary Purpose cult, Back to Basics mob, Clancy I and the Pacific Group, RAI replays the same record, albeit stuck in a groove… “RAI practices the 12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA), but claims to do it in a way that is more “pure” than AA and other “Anonymous” fellowships. RAI believes that the 12-step programs have been watered down over the years and no longer practice the true program of recovery as it was intended by its founders...” … Blah, blah, blah…

Watch out for those T-shirt vendors and lecturers at A.A. conventions - they may be victims in need of specialist counselling!

Cheerio, 

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Sunday, 20 April 2014

GSO (GB) Leads Members Away from Traditions


See GSO website “Event Calendar” April 2014


San Diego Spring Round Up” 
http://www.sandiegospringroundup.com/

Location: Town & Country Resort Hotel, 500 Hotel Circle North, San Diego, CA 92108 

Agenda
Thursday, April 17, 2014
Comedian and Ice Cream Social with Starbucks Coffee and Häagen-Dazs Ice cream - $30  
1/2 - Day Deep Sea Fishing Trip aboard the Chubasco II - $45 
http://www.sandiegospringroundup.com/event2.asp 

Friday April 18, 2014
Golf Tournament, Riverwalk Golf Club  -   $75 
http://www.sandiegospringroundup.com/event3.asp 

Saturday April 19, 2014
5K and 10K Fun Run/Walk- $20    
http://www.sandiegospringroundup.com/event4.asp 

Saturday April 19, 2014,
Tennis Tournament, Peninsula Tennis Club - $15 
http://www.sandiegospringroundup.com/event5.asp 

Saturday April 19, 2014
A.A. Breakfast/ Speaker - $36  

Al-Anon Luncheon / Speaker -$38 

A.A. Banquet / Speaker - $49 

San Diego Spring Roundup Radio Show!

Keith L of Midtown AA Group (note the promotional pop up of “Tough Love”)


San Diego Spring Roundup convention CDs for sale $7.00 each or- $60.00 for full set


San Diego Spring Roundup Commemorative Merchandise

T Shirts $13 Ladies V Neck $17 Sweatshirt $25 Embroidered polo $22 Souvenir Coffee cup $7 Souvenir Travel coffee mug $12


(Registration now closed)

Comment: Another promotional event that doesn’t say it is an AA event, but is clearly targeted at AA members. There’s loads of dosh to be made out of gullible alcoholics isn’t there? Just look at all those $$$$! We looked over the Roundup website to see what bona fide AA body is organising it and could only find a PO Box and a number of anonymous email addresses. While the gullible jump on a plane this Easter weekend to get fleeced and might even come back to the UK feeling grateful for it, what has happened to guardianship of traditions at GSO? Have they not heard of Traditions Five and Six?

Perhaps not?

For more information, email gso@alcoholics–anonymous.org.uk where helpful staff can advise you about the General Warranties of Conference. Here’s an extract from Warranty Five:

Privately, however, we can inform Traditions-violators that they are out of order. When they persist, we can follow up by using such other resources of persuasion as we may have, and these are often considerable…” (The AA Service Manual Combined with Twelve Concepts for World Service, p. 69) http://www.aa.org/pdf/products/en_bm-31.pdf

GSO staff can also advise you on how to submit a question/topic for Conference. If you’re stuck for ideas, here’s a suggestion for Conference 2015: “Should GSO (GB) use its website to indirectly promote Starbucks coffee, Häagen-Dazs ice cream and various other commercial enterprises. Yes or No?” Conference questions can be submitted directly to the Conference Co-ordinator at gso@alcoholics–anonymous.org.uk or via your local GSR, with appropriate background. (Hint, hint)

Now then, why would an alcoholic pay another $20 to have a fun run/walk, when the sane do it for free?

To find the answer to this intriguing question Google “Jogging in New York,” and then see the Washington Post’s “Midtown AA Group Leads Members Away from Traditions” http://blog.washingtonpost.com/rawfisher/2007/07/midtown_group_aa_group_leads_m.html and “The Dark Legacy of a Rehab Cult” http://www.thefix.com/content/aa-cults-synanon-legacy0009?page=all

Cheerio,

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
 

Friday, 2 August 2013

Showtime!


Well the Road to Recovery Plymouth (cult) group is back in the promotion business. Checking their site recently we came across this little item in the diary section:






Now don't be fooled by the banner heading - “Group of Alcoholics Anonymous”. This group NEVER had much to do with AA. In fact its members regard AA generally as something of a joke; “Beano readers” we believe is the term they employ. Alcoholics Anonymous' members, it would seem, don't quite meet the relatively high (?) standards that are required for affiliation with this group. No sirree! To be a proper, fully paid up servant of this gang you have to be possessed of all the necessary attributes that go to make a 'successful' cult prospect: arrogant, self-important, bullying (if not an outright 'thug'), promiscuous (ie. suffering from 'falling down trouser syndrome'), an advanced propensity to be closely - and frequently - completely unacquainted with the truth (ie. a liar), a Jack of all trades and master of none (eg. completely unqualified in medical/psychological matters but willing to give 'direction' in all of these), unacquainted virtually with anything in the basic literature (including the Big Book with special reference to Step Three), an inability to think or act on one's own behalf and so on and so forth.... the list as they say goes on 'ad infinitum'. In this group these indeed are the “essentials of recovery”.


But now we must return to the 'advert' on this cult website:


Bristol Reunion with “Honourable Member from Los Angeles”


Now for those of you who are not in the know the “Honourable Member” in question is none other than Clancy I or as we prefer to call him - the Venerable C. The Venerable One is not what might be called the shy retiring type. However he prefers not to blow his own trumpet (well not too frequently) but rather lets others do it for him. Hence the ads on the Bristol Reunion website as well as the Plymouth cult group's contribution.






The Bristol Reunion is run by the Newcomers Groups of that city – yet another branch of the cult in Great Britain. For some years now they have been very active in the 'promotions business” with a number of visits by the Venerable C under their belt already. Not content, however, with solo performances they have also hosted not infrequently the Joe and Charlie duet. Again for those of you not fully clued up on the 'circuit speaker' brigade these latter two have been illuminating (is that the right word?) AA members for a number of years now with their particular take on their personal bible – The Big Book. As you may observe from the previous link Joe McQ in particular has a liking for the 'authoritarian' style of sponsorship hence their complete neglect of Chapter 7 “Working With Others” from the aforementioned tome. It really doesn't suit him at all! It is ironic isn't it that here stands yet another example of the 'cafeteria' (ie take what you want and leave the rest) style of recovery so derided by Big Book experts the world over! For our part we advise anybody who meets a Big Book 'expert' … take what you hear with a very large pinch of salt!


But for now we must return to the main 'attraction'.


Clancy I is the head honcho behind what is referred to as the Pacific Group in Los Angeles. He has been quite tireless in his promotion of this clique over a number of years (not to mention himself, of course, which we wouldn't dream of doing!). He also sponsors quite a number of individuals (as long as they don't have beards) including our very own Wayne P (Plymouth Road to Recovery cult group) as well as the now deceased (thankfully) Michael Quinones (Mike Q) leader of the notorious Midtown Group(s) and serial sexual predator. The Venerable C himself recently featured in an article in The Fix (an online magazine dealing with addiction) entitled “AA Cults I Have Known” written by someone who has some acquaintance with the fellow. We were particularly struck by one reference to his conduct when speaking to a gathering of his devotees, the Atlantic Group. This, we thought, gave a particular insight into his true character. 

Every year, to celebrate their anniversary, AG invites Clancy to speak at their meeting, hence the enormous crowd. On this evening, he told a story very familiar to AAs from the many tapes and conventions he has spoken at over the decades. He was entertaining, pausing for laughs and dramatic punctuation. 

Midway, he used the word “goddamit.” A young man piped up from the balcony to say, “Excuse me Sir, we have no profanity at this meeting.” It was clear he was attempting a teasing tone. It was also clear he had misjudged the room. The enormous hall froze, not unlike in an abusive household when a child calls out their cruel father.

At that moment, as I fiddled with my name tag, I thought it would be a great chance to see long-term, revered sobriety in action. How would the man whose AA tapes had helped me stay sober 20 years earlier gracefully handle this interruption. 

In the event, there was no empathy for the psychology of the newly sober young man. Instead, Clancy played to the crowd. He expertly waited a few beats of pin-dropping silence, then leaned in to the microphone and said, “Shut up Bitch.” 

And then, hundreds of sober men and women burst into laughter. Some applauded, as if they were watching Louis CK take down a heckler. The young man turned bright red, and awkwardly raced out of the church. Of the several hundred attendees—many of whom claim to be “recovered” from alcoholism, and that their most important action each day is to “carry the message to the alcoholic who still suffers”—not one followed the young man outside. Instead, they turned their attention to Clancy and lapped up the rest of his honed speech, in which he assured the room that their brand of sobriety was more solid, more real and more lasting than any other.” 

How telling! The thug revealed in all his hideous glory! 

So if you want to watch a narcissist in action revelling in his own essential mediocrity by all means pay your money! It's a free country (just about!). If you want the Jeremy Kyle version of recovery with a bit of humiliation thrown in go on down and get dirty with the Venerable C! He'll put you in your place make no mistake! After all you deserve a bit of abuse! You're ONLY an alcoholic! 

Cheerio 

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous) 

PS See the Traditions in particular Tradition 12. Spot the difference between it and the self-promotional tactics demonstrated above

Friday, 11 May 2012

Synanon and Midtown – a warning?


Extracts from an article written by JD Dickey: “The Dark Legacy of a Rehab Cult” in The Fix (online magazine)

Its three decades of fame and infamy should have made Synanon into little more than a historical curiosity, an object lesson in rehab gone awry, larded with all the now-clichéd excesses of the 1960s and ‘70s. Instead, the organization has gone on to function as a perverse sort of model for the ways in which Alcoholics Anonymous’s original approach can be corrupted and misused.

The problem derives from AA’s own bottom-up structure, or “benign anarchy” as founder Bill W. put it, in which individual branches are largely self-governing and don't have to report back to the home office on their exact methods of treatment. Synanon was decidedly not a branch of AA, but its example can be seen in the evolution of deviant AA chapters, in which the presence of a strongman or guru, institutionalized paranoia and member abuse are hallmarks, resulting in the rise of entities which call themselves AA meetings, but function more like cults. The irony is that the stated reason for AA’s adoption of its famously decentralized, leaderless approach was specifically to prevent cults of personality.

In 2007, in a brief burst of media attention, the Midtown Group of AA, just outside Washington, DC, was exposed as a haven for illicit behavior under the guiding hand of one Michael Quinones, or “Mike Q.” [sponsored by Clancy I] Under his system, teenage female addicts were paired off with predatory middle-aged male sponsors. Women who spoke out against or wanted to leave the chapter were humiliated at the hands of older male members, many of whom had long since beaten their drug addictions and were staying in the group simply to score with girls young enough to be their daughters. Along with being assigned sponsors who functioned more as sexual partners (a particularly reprehensible form of what’s known as “13th-Stepping”), members might be encouraged to break off contact with friends and family outside of the group and to quit using all drugs—even prescription meds needed to fight, say, depression or schizophrenia. The allegations were all quite sensational, but were largely treated as a one-off aberration by the mainstream media—and were more or less forgotten when Mike Q. died a few months after the story broke. Although the Midtown Group no longer operates in DC, it still holds itinerant meetings in Northern Virginia, and its members have learned to avoid the glare of outside inquiry. Perhaps the most salient point of the whole affair, however, was the inability of AA HQ to do anything about the rogue group.

Indeed, AA has a policy of not addressing allegations involving individual chapters—much less monitoring their actions—following Bill W.’s anarchic credo. One of the few comments the home office did make (via an anonymous staff member in the Washington Post) about Midtown was that “groups that did not follow the [AA] traditions and concepts would fall away” and, citing the Second Tradition, that the organization’s national leaders “are but trusted servants ... They do not govern.” Indeed, the home office typically refuses to comment on, or at best makes vague generalizations about, the actions of its chapters, however much they depart from the organization’s mission and practices.

With AA having little such oversight, it’s difficult to get a read on how widespread these perverted groups may be. Given AA's generally solid reputation, and since the police and press have little interest in uncovering therapy cults that likely operate within the fringe of the law, most testimonials about cult-like AA groups come from, as you might expect, comments on blogs and websites.

Though not quite up to the standards accepted by mainstream journalism, the stories amassed by sites such as orange-papers.org, aacultwatch.co.uk, xsteppers.multiply.com and stinkin-thinkin.com are often as compelling as they are depressing. Here we learn that Clancy Imislund, a famed addiction expert [?] who managed to get celebrities such as Anthony Hopkins clean while operating an LA rehab program for the homeless, is the driving force behind the Pacific Group, also based in Los Angeles and one of the country’s largest AA chapters. Some allege that the Pacific Group has adopted many of Synanon’s former methods, including claims of guru status for “Clancy I.,” sexual exploitation and various forms of behavioral control. Imislund himself seems to be a somewhat of a globetrotter, advising other AA chapters around the country and the world, expanding the presence of the Pacific Group with spin-off meetings and giving countless speeches about personal empowerment and beating the demon of addiction. (Interestingly, when asked about the Midtown Group scandal, Imislund responded in the Washington Post that “there probably have been some excesses, but they have helped more sober alcoholics in Washington than any other group by far.”)

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And he’s [Clancy I] not the only one: From Dallas to Anaheim, from Phoenix to Bainbridge Island, Wash., you can read online about larger-than-life men—and they are almost always men—who have transformed their own little chapters of AA into personality cults based on their own interpretation of the 12-Step gospel. Here, age-inappropriate sex might masquerade as sponsorship; rejection of friends and family might go hand-in-hand with rejection of pushers and enablers; and using medications to control your blood pressure might be viewed as negatively as popping pills to get high.

It’s a fairly grim alternate universe—but how much of it can be proven or even substantiated is mostly unknown. Aside from press reports of the now infamous Midtown Group, few above-board analyses of AA cults even exist, leading skeptics to wonder if they aren’t just figments of disillusioned former members’ imaginations.

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In the face of such shadowy claims, it remains up to the reader to determine his or her own truth about how widespread or exceptional deviant AA chapters really are, and whether the organization’s intentionally anarchic policies may too easily allow self-proclaimed gurus and sexual predators a foothold within them. Between a lack of accountability to the home office on the one hand, and potentially repressive policing by a centralized authority on the other, a third way for AA to deal with this threat is certainly called for—if not an approach that gives it policing power over its members, then at least a method by which the gurus and strongmen can be exposed and kept from preying on the vulnerable. In the end, despite being defunct for more than 20 years, the specter of Synanon continues to haunt AA”

(Our emphases)

Comment: For a third way see Minority Report link above

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

Thursday, 23 February 2012

Some background on the Midtown and Into Action cult groups (US)



There are two cult-like groups that I have come across . . . Midtown and “Into Action”. …...

At first glance, they all appear exactly the same. Incredible overzealousness, “in your face” greeting, lots of young members, and the sense of great social community. With Into Action, there is strict adherence to rules and format (which I saw a lot of in the Vision). I understand why these groups are attractive, but oddly, the longer you are around it is almost impossible to feel attracted to it. With that in mind, I really haven’t explored the structure much because my interest in the groups is tainted with contempt prior to investigation . . . so I just stay away. With the Into Action groups, I can confirm the exact same stuff I felt at the Vision for You. Adulation of sponsorship, a clear sense of being different from “mainstream AA” and an undercurrent of arrogance.

.. many AA women ….. have been abused by the Midtown group’s sexual predators. Abuse of new women is institutionalized and tragic. Most of the women who come to their senses and leave are almost impossible to convert to basic AA. Their esteem seems totally destroyed . . . this is one thing I never saw at the Vision or the Into Action groups. I'd characterize it this way . . . Vision was uptight about sex, Into Action seem laissez faire and Midtown is positively sinister.

There is solid evidence that Midtown and Into Action are both involved heavily in the ICYPAA organization. I remember them coming to the Vision lobbying for support back in the mid 90’s and their representatives were all from DC. ICYPAA is not surprisingly very active in our area, I don’t attend though because I consider the “cut off” for young as somewhere around 30 . . .

That is about all I can think of the might be of interest.”

(our edits)

Comment: See US “Cult: Where to Find” for Into Action meeting directory

Cheerio

The Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)

PS (our usual thanks to our reporter)