An
email (dated Monday 17/06/13)
“Good
evening Mr ???????, It was brought to my attention that you have
PUBLICLY named myself and the group I belong to on the World Wide
Web. I have absolutely no intention of having any debate with you
regarding your comments, the fact that someone passes on their
opinion to you which goes to print tells me everything I need to
know.
However, as I do have a partner and kids, I shall be seeking legal advice on this matter and only wish to afore warn you of my intentions.
You do now have the opportunity of course to remove this quote, and pass on the details of its author. To hide behind the status of anonymity, I must confess to having never come across such a cowardly act in such a long time.
Mr Lindsay …...”
However, as I do have a partner and kids, I shall be seeking legal advice on this matter and only wish to afore warn you of my intentions.
You do now have the opportunity of course to remove this quote, and pass on the details of its author. To hide behind the status of anonymity, I must confess to having never come across such a cowardly act in such a long time.
Mr Lindsay …...”
(our
edits)
Our
reply (dated 18/06/13)
“Dear
Mr …...,
With
reference to our blog entry “Linwood: Change Through Action BB [Big Book] Monday”
(14th
June 2013)
Thank
you for your mail. As you will note from the blog entry (and in
accordance with AA tradition) your first name only has been
identified. As for our names you may take your pick: Ebenezer,
Zachariah, Sandra, Mike, John, Bruce (and Sheila), Uncle Tom Cobley and so on and so forth....
It
is unfortunate that you have declined to enter into a debate but that
of course is entirely your privilege. On previous occasions where
groups and individuals have done so we have on occasion modified our
entries accordingly. But the opportunity is there should you choose
to avail yourself of it (you will note here our inclusion of an
invitation on the blog entry itself: “Any further information
welcome”)
As
for your declared intention to seek legal advice again that is
entirely your prerogative. An essential however to any action for
defamation (which we infer) is that it must be demonstrated that the
criticism is false. The allegations are:-
- That members of the Linwood: Change Through Action BB [Big Book] Monday group sometimes refers to themselves as the “Black Panthers”;
- That members of the Linwood: Change Through Action BB [Big Book] Monday group identify themselves in meetings with both first name and surname;
- That members of the Linwood: Change Through Action BB [Big Book] Monday group berate the fellowship etc;
- That members of the Linwood: Change Through Action BB [Big Book] Monday attempt to change the format of existing AA meetings;
- That the “energy” of members of the Linwood: Change Through Action BB [Big Book] Monday is “very dark”;
- That you yourself (as a member of the Linwood: Change Through Action BB [Big Book] Monday are “miserable, controlling”.
The
question is: are the above true or false?
An
alternative tack would be “public disclosure of private facts”
(where the truth of the statement may not be used as a defence).
This arises where one person reveals information that is not of
public concern, and the release of which would offend a reasonable
person. It is difficult to envisage that a reasonable person would
find the majority of the statements above offensive. Indeed the
epithet “Black Panthers” might be regarded as a compliment in
some circles (especially where it is apparently self-applied!).
However we would admit that being “miserable” is hardly a matter
for public concern but that “controlling” conduct certainly is
(given the nature of our campaign)
(We
must confess at this point we are somewhat puzzled by your reference
to “a partner and kids” since we have made no mention of them in
our original blog entry nor regard them as in any way relevant to our
investigations. A cynic might infer that your introduction of them at
this stage represents an attempt at deflection (a “red herring”)
from the central issue)
Finally
we thank you for warning us of your intentions. However we decline
your invitation to remove the quote. Under no circumstances,
moreover, would we disclose the identity of our correspondent as you
request – or for that matter any other correspondent (although we
do find it interesting – and perhaps significant – that you seem
keen to seek such information since any action for defamation would
necessarily be directed at us).
If
however your email is simply an attempt on your part to silence
criticism or evade exposure we can assure you now that it isn't going
to work!
(our
edits)
Cheers
The
Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
PS
Your email (with the customary edits to preserve anonymity) together
with our response will appear on the blog today”