The Affiliation Motive and Readiness to join Alcoholics Anonymous,
Trice HM, Quarterly Journal of Studies on Alcohol, Vol. 20 (No.2),
June, 1959
“Numerous
alcoholics have responded to Alcoholics Anonymous upon first exposure,
often without subsequent “slips.” Still others react neutrally,
or even antagonistically, and remain unattracted to the group and its
program for sobriety. The contrast is frequently startling. On the one hand, Jim after going
to his first meeting, attends steadily, readily adjusts to the
continuous give
and take of the casual A.A. atmosphere, and appears to give up his
drinking without unusual difficulty. The observer gets the impression
that in the A.A. group he has satisfied his emotional needs more
effectively than he was able to do through his alcoholism. On the
other hand, Bill M. tries the same group under quite similar conditions but reacts adversely, showing only a mild and superficial
attraction. He goes a few times but tends to keep to himself at
meetings; finds a host of competitors for the A.A. group such as job
requirements, family commitments and church affiliations; and soon
begins to drink again.
What
accounts for this contrasting behavior? A previous study has attempted
to compare the experiences and attitudes of affiliates and
nonaffiliates during three phases of the affiliation process: before
going to any meeting at all, at the time of initial contact with a
group, and after attending meetings for a few weeks. In two areas,
particularly, there was sharp differentiation between the two groups.
The affiliates, in contrast to the nonaffiliates, regarded
themselves, before they ever attended a meeting as persons "who
often shared their troubles with others." Furthermore, after
attending meetings for a few weeks, the affiliates - in much greater
numbers than the nonaffiliates - were attracted to the casual,
informal interactions that occured before and after the formal A.A.
meeting. These two findings suggested that a stronger emotional need
for social acceptance existed among affiliates than among
nonaffiliates. Apparently an "affiliation motive was aiding
those who successfully joined A.A. but was relatively weak in those alcoholics who did not.”
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Meetings alone do not keep anyone sober. A members eye view of AA states, "There is widely held belief in AA that if a newcomer will simply continue to attend meetings,'something will rub off on you'...the funny part about it is that something is rubbing off on them. Death...the real miracle...is the willingness to act." It's the steps we take NOT the meetings we make that keeps us sober.
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