45.
Would Conference please discuss and make recommendations on the current wording in the A.A. literature and on the website regarding Open Meetings with a view to making it plainer that those attending A.A. meetings have some connection with alcoholism, either their own or somebody else’s.
1)
Background material:
Open
Meetings statement (see the national website);
Front
covers of the London Where to Find and theWhere to Find A.A. Great Britain and English Speaking Europe.
The A.A. Preamble
Traditions 3, 5, 6 and 10.
2)
Recommendation
The
first paragraph of the website statement under the headings ‘About
AA Meetings’ ‘Open Meetings’ states the case clearly that
‘Open’ meetings are for anyone wanting to solve a personal
drinking problem, and for friends and families of those wanting to
solve a drinking problem.
The
statement on the front covers of the two meeting directories,
“Non‐alcoholics
may attend meetings listed as ‘open’ should
I think for clarity and in keeping with A.A.s primary purpose, be
changed and carry the same sentence or something similar.
Why?
The
term and wording “Non‐alcoholics
may attend meetings listed as ‘open’ on
the covers of the two directories would seem not to serve our primary
purpose as stated in the last two lines of the Preamble.
It
is the case that many who have addictions other than alcohol go along
to open meetings of Alcoholics Anonymous for their therapeutic
benefit. Such individuals are not attending an A.A. meeting because
they are supporting a family member or friend with a drinking
problem, or because they have a desire to stop drinking (they may be
moderate drinkers) they are attending because they have an addiction,
and want to draw strength and comfort from our mature and strong
Fellowship. Such individuals frequently share regardless of the fact
that alcohol may not be their problem. In this case I feel that
Traditions 3, 5, 6 and 10 are being contravened.
In
this era where the words “recovery” and “in recovery” have
become umbrella terms for those sober from alcohol, clean from drugs
or abstinent from sex/food/or rock and roll, Alcoholics Anonymous has
a real obligation to hold firmly and clearly to our primary purpose.
Terms
of Reference No. 7 Background material did not match question and is
already covered in AA literature.
Comment:
Too true! It is known that some therapists and treatments centres
are advising clients who don't meet our membership requirement to
attend AA meetings simply for their therapeutic value (and the fact
that they're free!) with a total disregard (thereby demonstrating
their disrespect) for our primary purpose Of course the following
statements may be read out (where appropriate, and in addition to the
Preamble) to clarify what this purpose is.
Source:
http://www.aa.org/assets/en_US/f-17_primarypurposestatementcard.pdf
Furthermore it is perfectly legitimate for members to point out to the interlopers where necessary that whereas they have our sympathy (and perhaps even empathy) they are quite definitely in the WRONG place!
Furthermore it is perfectly legitimate for members to point out to the interlopers where necessary that whereas they have our sympathy (and perhaps even empathy) they are quite definitely in the WRONG place!
At
this point it might be worth considering the potential impact of the
'chit' system (court mandated attendance) on the fellowship where individuals may be
referred - or compelled - to attend AA meetings who don't fall into
the category of drinker which AA caters for ie. the chronic
alcoholic. These individuals may be sent to us purely on the basis
of having some kind of drinking problem associated with their
offending behaviour. This does not mean they are necessarily
alcoholics, and certainly does not imply that AA is the best place
for them. But a government looking to make swingeing cuts in public
expenditure ie. ours, might be tempted not only to 'dump' these
individuals on us but also anyone with any kind of addiction problem in
order to save money. The consequences for AA in Great Britain could
be as devastating as they have been in some parts of the US already.
Cheers
The
Fellas (Friends of Alcoholics Anonymous)
PS
For AA Minority Report 2013 click here